could somone please list steps on how to take off the rear bumper please. i tried looking for service manuals but they are ridiculous prices.. so if someone could tell me how to remove the back bumper i would appreciate it very much.

First, you didn't say what car you have. Second, the manual price isn't ridiculous if you get the $20 subscription and download it from the Subaru tech website-
http://techinfo.subaru.com/html/index.jsp

The back bumper off a 1943 Dodge D-22 war wagon?

Your profile is there to fill out, I suggest you do so, so that people might know what kind of vehicle you are talking about. Getting the manual online will help, but someone with experience may give you better input.

sorry about that.. its a 04 wrx..
thnks for that link