What socket does the relay plug into? The 2nd from the bottom, or the 3rd, for a 04 STi.

third from the bottom

http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c162/LESLIEx317537/STi%20Fog%20Lights/relay03.jpg

one more question, where can i get that relay like that? mine looks like this. this is straight from japan.

http://img157.imageshack.us/img157/9661/relay8wz.jpg

i also got one from jamie. for 04 sti. looks exactly as the picture i just posted.

that is the right relay, disreguard the illustration at the right of the pic

thanks! i guess i was confused because the relay that i have has 2 up and down and 2 side to side prongs, and the fuse box has 3 side to side prongs, and 1 up and down.