talked to cobb again today, they told me to try and download new maps again,try reflashing the ecu but instead of skipping the step in the manual about turning the car on and off, go ahead and do it.
i got home and tried to download new maps, went to transfer them to the ap and when i plugged it into the wall the ap screen turned black, and i was unable to do anything.ill be calling cobb again in the am and most likely be sending everything to them,hopefully they can help me out.