At least you guys don't drive a wagon.
My god that thing is a bear to wax properly.
And I have plenty of rock chips and other nasty paint blemishes...... That's what you get for driving offroad. I also have swirls and light scratches on the sides of the car from narrow trails or taking turns a bit too wide offroad and brushing the bushes.
Car still looks nice though, subaru blue is very pretty.
I wash with off-the-shelf stuff and go to a spray-n-wash after I go offroad. I usually take my ramps with me to get the muck out of the underbody.