I have been ridiculously careful ever since then. Heres what my progress on repairing this has been so far:
I got the paint from Subaru yesterday. Wetsanded very lightly to smooth out as much as I can (I'm worried even with as light as I went, I might have taken off a bit too much).
After that, 2 very light coats of dupli-color 2in1 Primer/filler, with an hour between coats. Then did 4 coats of touch up. Wish I could have done it neater, didn't want to have to sand anymore. Heres what it looks like right now.
Tomorrow I'm going to sand it smooth then do a light coat of the dupli-color clear coat. Then the polishing.. hopefully the sanding will buff out
Edit: Just realized that I'm going to have to sand the touchup paint, then polish that first, then clear cloat, and probably polish that again. Does that sound right?