So I checked out Bayson R and they said that this liphttp://www.baysonr.com/08_09_Subaru_Impreza_STI_V_Style_PU_Front_Lip_p/flip-pu-im0809-sti.htm should fit or at least it looked like this kit. At the store they said $125 cash which is probably better than shipping that large thing. They also have side skirts and rear diffuser (similiar to HT Autos abs plastic only) in both polyurethane and abs plastic. So tomorrow I will be getting the lip hopefully
as for the "add on" lip like Jordan test fitted they had the exact same one but the guy said it was for a wrx of course but I dont know if it will fit as I have a hatch. But I will definitely ask more questions tomorrow. Hopefully that lip will come with installation hardware too! hope this helps guys.