Well ECU dilemma has been decided.
Going w/ an AEM EMS v2. Even though the cobb SD is appealing, I don't think I can sleep easy going that route.
Junior is going to tune it for me and get me all situated once it comes time to get everything hooked up and go.
Ran through the numbers today, still have about 10,000 dollars to finish this build so it's going to be a while yet.