Thanks to BenHart21, problem confirmed:
I ordered up two relays just to eliminate the issue of one being bad...this is what you do after having so many problems and your project going a year overdue. I also ordered a brand new integrated unit just to eliminate that possible problem as well.
I hope this sovles the fan issue, then it will be one issue left and the car should be good to go.
The issue of the TMIC I thought of the possibility I may have a jdm one that slightly larger? I'll have to try the one off the 05 STi I have and compare the sizes to see, that would be a nice surprise as well and make the fix fairly simple.
I won't get to test this weekend but the weekend of the 5th I will.