Originally Posted by Neek
I totally completely and wholeheartedly disagree. Particularly when pertaining to somebody's weight, which is something that can be altered.
So these are equivalent to you?
"Your friends and I have all gotten together and agreed that we feel bad that you continue to struggle with your weight. I know it's hard to try to make a big change in your life, but you are headed down the road to an early death"
"Lose some weight fatty"
I must have missed the part where that guy was part of her life and was just looking out for her best interests.