FYI - After having a dealership tell me the switch and relay were not available separately yet (only int he kit) -- I had another dealer identify and order them in for me. $63 for both.
Installed them today and bought those stock lights off the ebay link above a few months ago. Just forgot to buy the bolts - grrrr --
Took me 20 mins (expect it took about 10 extra mins to cut out the bezel hole for the switch....its not notched - you need to carefully get in there with a utility knife/small drill hole and clean it out if you dont plan on buying the bezel with the hole in it already.
so got everything installed today except the lights themselves (which look like the easiest part). I'll post some pics next weekend.