wow. **** that noise, you got pretty boned in that deal. shipping charge is ~$60 iirc. would have cost ~$13 per wheel to swap onto your car at most tire shops.
also you really don't want a wide snow tire, skinnier in the snow the better. you need to cut through the snow to get to the pavement under it. skinny with tall sidewall will give you much better snow/ice grip. if you like the look of sitting flush like your summer setup, get some spacers.