Originally Posted by Asinine
What is it about a polite note that is inherently wrong, and what about face-to-face is inherently right? The fact that you think it's a matter of "fear" indicates you're looking at this from the wrong perspective. This is not a conflict. There is no "him vs the neighbors." It's a simple request.
you forget - everyone on the internet thinks they are tough as f*ck, and the e-bravado is super strong when they criticize others for lacking it. Most of these bravetards wouldn't do half they crap they say they would...