These should be where you made your connections. The blue & green unlock & lock wires can connect directly to them (no need for a relay).
Power Lock red/white - BIU, gray 20 pin plug, pin 12
Notes: The BIU (Body Integrated Unit) is under the driver dash, to the left of the steering column.
Power Unlock yellow/red (all doors), orange/black (driver door) - BIU, gray 20 pin plug, pins 11 and 14