Originally Posted by klarowe
By the sounds of it, he has one of the units with the build in 451m relays. So he has the heavier duty outputs (not the small 3 pin)
Exactly. If you look at the Diagram that is in the link the alarm has an 8 pin harness (H2) devoted to the door locks. Which is the built in relay. I am trying to figure out how to wire in the unlock portion as the locking seems to be working.
update: I connected the Blue/Black Wire to the Driver door Black/orange wire on the keyless module and now both the lock and unlock work. Connecting the Black/Blue wire to the Orange Black wire works with the progressive unlock. With 2 unlock commands all doors will unlock.