Well I fixed it (kinda).
After weeks of messing around with the hoses. Checking looking, testing wires ect. It turns out I was missing the little plug thing that fills in the hole on the clutch pedal. I stuffed in a bolt and took a quick drive to test it out, and my cruise control works. Yeah.
I would still love to know what the part is that fits in there. The local subaru garages don't know what part it is. Then again I was trying to describe it to them on the phone.
If anyone does know the part number, and would like to tell me that would be great.
Dennis/Bluesubie thanks for your help. You and OBSFAN lead me strait to the real problem. I would never have found it without your help