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02-13-2004, 01:52 PM | #1 |
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A look at the root of relationship problems
Deepthought: Humans are inherently a selfish being....I think all relationship problems have to do with a conscious, or in some cases, a subconscious selfish act.
In other words, every problem can usually be traced back to a selfish act. Discuss
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02-13-2004, 01:53 PM | #2 |
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I disagree, every problem can be traced back to WAPCE.
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The problem isn't the relationship. The problem is our expectation that it's supposed to last.
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The root cause of any problem in any relationship (not just a sexual relationship), even business relationships, etc. is a lack of communication and/or trust. Simple.
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Selfish acts? No. When I ask my g/f for head, it's a selfish act, but it's not putting my relationship in jeopardy because it's offset by selfless acts.
In the end the problem will always come down to honesty; given a situation, are you being honest with your S/O about how you feel? Are you being honest with yourself about how you feel? Let's face it, most of us are emotional fudgewits when it comes to ourselves and the ones we love (sometimes one in the same, I guess). |
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no, it's about not vocalizing your expectations.
basic communication. relationships are almost like ordering your food at a restaurant. if you want fries, ask for fries. don't expect your server to read your mind. if you want sauce on the side, ask for it. |
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You are failing to look deeper I think. I like to think of this in a research context. What are the independent and dependent variables? In other words, a lack of communication and other problems associated with relationship problems is dependent upon another variable, ie. selfishness. I see everyone pointing out the effects of one being selfish. |
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If you aren't selfish a little bit, then you become a push-over for the more selfish person in any relationship (be it friends, lovers, etc.).
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Some people are simply too stupid to communicate. There's nothing selfish or malevolent, they just don't know any better.
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If you are too stupid to communicate, it is because you havent taken the time to research and educate yourself how to effectively communicate with that someone. Being stupid or ignorant is not an excuse. People choose to be this way=Selfishness |
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