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Old 05-15-2006, 02:15 PM   #1
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Default life questions from a friend of mine! need some O.T. input

So..... *cliff notes edition*
The friend has a almost perfect life. Working around the world in tires... travels for a living. dating this girl for 4 years... one day he was approched to help a tire company get though some problems. But he would have to move to L.A. area to do it. He traveled to see her when he could. ... She told him to go after it.... So he did. few months into it. Things started to go down hill. This guys quits the job to come home. But it was too late....

He then moves north and starts dating again. meets this girl and starts over, and they are happy for while.... now into the 2nd year moved to another state. things are getting bumpy... He still chats and passes emails with his old girlfriend.....

He has a somewhat happy life but still not happy.... He dosent want to pull the plug and destory her. But wants to keep working it out. I think if the job of a lifetime just didnt land in his lap. He'd try to go back to his ex and work things out. He really misses her. Shes just a few states away.

He asked me what he should do..... Stay take the job... work on happyness. Or ditch it all and go for broke and head to where his life once was....

Should I just kick him in the balls?.....
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Old 05-15-2006, 02:25 PM   #2
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Old 05-15-2006, 02:28 PM   #3
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Agreed.
Sounds like he could use an Awdit(y).

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Old 05-15-2006, 02:30 PM   #4
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Grass is always greener...
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Old 05-15-2006, 02:30 PM   #5
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Tell him his tears are a sign that his childhood was too cushy.
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Old 05-15-2006, 02:31 PM   #6
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Get him a pet rock.
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Old 05-15-2006, 02:38 PM   #7
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you can never go back....it will never be the same as you remember it. Move on....he's kidding himself if he thinks he will be happy with the first one....she moved on...so should he. I'm not an expert....but if 2 ex-wives has taught me anything its the grass is only as green as you make it...or grow it LMAO!
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Old 05-15-2006, 03:14 PM   #8
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Yeah I told him....

He thinks its soul mates...

Their parents used to work togther, Back when they were 5 years old, They used to play togther at the parents work. Then everyone went there differant ways. 20 years later. They meet again on the internet not know any of this. They find out what each parent used to do for work.. Then the pictures of them playing togther came out... freaky stuff huh...


He's had a rough childhood. Her parents liked him alot, opened their lifes up to him. Like he never did have growing up much.
He says current girlfriends parents hate him, Him and the mom want to toss knifes at each other.
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Old 05-15-2006, 03:21 PM   #9
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Oh gawd..Is his name Mudpig by any chance? This is a prime reason why you don't communicate with ex-es..they love playing these "keeping it reserve" games..
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Old 05-15-2006, 03:33 PM   #10
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Dude needs to buy something off Ebay. That should cheer him up.

Then kick him in the junk.
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Old 05-15-2006, 03:33 PM   #11
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the prospect of overcoming crazy circumstances and consumating a childhood crush in the name of "love" is really appealing in a melodramatic kind of way. too bad it's a ****ing pipe dream. seriously, what kind of life does he expect if they've tried and failed already AND her family hates him?

tell him to move on.
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