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Old 11-26-2012, 03:49 AM   #1
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Is it really that hard? I've been going through some **** since august with my wife. Things hit a breaking point today and I dipped out. We just got married july 2011, and have no major investments together. She told me I couldn't take any of the 3 trucks, which one she just bought for me....whatever could careless. I moved into her house after we met 5 years ago, never paid a bill and she bought me tons of **** as most of you know, life was good I had a sugamomma. I feel like I should just get back what I took + a few things she's bought me since then as gifts. Since she's been such a bitch my brother and other friends say i am entitled to half of everything she's acquired since we've been together.......I don't wanna be a dick since I didn't pay for **** while living there, so I ask.....WWTXIC? Jared made divorce look sweet with his 355 and college p*ssy. I'm not that baller, staying at my bros driving a buddies accord lol


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Old 11-26-2012, 08:21 AM   #2
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Honestly man I'd make it a clean as break as I could. I've never been divorced but my friends that have make it look horrible. But I feel like that's because both sides we fighting so hard.

It sounds like you don't want any thing, just to get your life back. I think in that case it should be easy.
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Old 11-26-2012, 09:40 AM   #3
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Unless she was cheating on you without reason, or just flipped her attitude one day then I say make it clean as possible. If you never contributed anything then you get what you earn in my opinion. But if you did and she was the one that changed then you are entitled to some things.

It is hard to have an opinion on this cause I don't know what happened on both ends.
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Old 11-26-2012, 09:55 AM   #4
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Either way it sucks.. luckily you guys dont have kids. Sometimes this **** happens, you just want to make a clean break. Dont dwell on the bad ****, just try to move forward. Since shes been such a bitch, my advice since ive been through it... dont ever talk to her again. Youll be fine with time.
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Old 11-26-2012, 10:03 AM   #5
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I don't mean to be a di#*, but its sounds to me like she got tired of being with a loser. Why don't you try growing up and making it work with your wife? I don't know about you, but I'm a man of God and I don't take marriage so lightly. Just saying.

This just in: your not entitled to 50 percent until you have been married for 10 years. It seems people are giving you bad advice.

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Old 11-26-2012, 10:29 AM   #6
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Ya. I would try and take much. That's when things get messy. Since you didn't pay for it in the first place just cut your losses and get out.
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Old 11-26-2012, 10:32 AM   #7
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I don't mean to be a di#*, but its sounds to me like she got tired of being with a loser. Why don't you try growing up and making it work with your wife? I don't know about you, but I'm a man of God and I don't take marriage so lightly. Just saying.

This just in: your not entitled to 50 percent until you have been married for 10 years. It seems people are giving you bad advice.
Idk about taking it lightly man he was with her 5 years. Stuff happens. My parents should have split 10 years ago but didn't because the bible says its "wrong"
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Old 11-26-2012, 10:54 AM   #8
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I don't mean to be a di#*, but its sounds to me like she got tired of being with a loser. Why don't you try growing up and making it work with your wife? I don't know about you, but I'm a man of God and I don't take marriage so lightly. Just saying.

This just in: your not entitled to 50 percent until you have been married for 10 years. It seems people are giving you bad advice.

You sure on the 10 years? I know anything they bought jointly after marriage they have to split, but if she had a car before they were married in her name, then he would not be entitled to that.
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Old 11-26-2012, 11:08 AM   #9
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I don't mean to be a di#*, but its sounds to me like she got tired of being with a loser. Why don't you try growing up and making it work with your wife? I don't know about you, but I'm a man of God and I don't take marriage so lightly. Just saying.

This just in: your not entitled to 50 percent until you have been married for 10 years. It seems people are giving you bad advice.

Your a man of God who is judging someone and calling them a loser? Shut the **** up.



OP, call a lawyer. You wont know what is going to happen for sure unless you get some legal advice from someone who knows what they are talking about.
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Old 11-26-2012, 11:08 AM   #10
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thats not correct ortho, not at all...
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Old 11-26-2012, 11:29 AM   #11
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Your a man of God who is judging someone and calling them a loser? Shut the **** up.



OP, call a lawyer. You wont know what is going to happen for sure unless you get some legal advice from someone who knows what they are talking about.
^^^^^THIS!!!

As a guy going through this, you should most definitely consult with an attorney for advice, if nothing else. Aside from all the "man of God" stuff, you are who you are and are going through something very difficult times. Get all the legal advice you can get because it can bite you in the arse if you don't get all your I's dotted and T's crossed.

As far as "is it that hard?" there is no real answer for that, everyone's situation is different. All I can say is good luck!
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Old 11-26-2012, 11:33 AM   #12
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Went through the same bs.. but I was with my ex for 9 years.. married for 4 years. divorced in 2009. I got served right before Xmas.. Didn't expect it to happen.. =) Yeah it was a bummer.. but I just thought positive and moved on. I lost 90% of all of my own belongings because I didn't bother to go back to get them, and I didn't wanna deal with legal battles.. so I just let everything go except my motorcycle, and my car which later I traded in for my wrx.. awesome.. I"m happy where I'm at without her..

If at the time I was smart enough, I'd get me a lawyer and get all my personal belongings back peacefully without the PMS rage..

So seek legal advice!
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Old 11-26-2012, 12:18 PM   #13
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Old 11-26-2012, 07:38 PM   #14
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Just throw her the meanest b****ing you ever have..
She'll be fine in the morning!
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Old 11-26-2012, 08:35 PM   #15
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actaully, I believe you are common-law married after living with someone for two weeks, and they can take half of your stuff...


Kevin, Im sorry this is happening to you, getting divorced was the best and worst thing to ever happen to me (worse because it almost killed me - I loved my ex-wife, best because my current wife is better for me in every way shape and form...)

I hope you are ok regardless what happens - Good Luck man!

and for those that tell him to "man up" - your not in his shoes, not living his life - I dont condone divorce either, but sometimes its for the best.
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Old 11-26-2012, 09:05 PM   #16
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actaully, I believe you are common-law married after living with someone for two weeks, and they can take half of your stuff...

Kevin, Im sorry this is happening to you, getting divorced was the best and worst thing to ever happen to me (worse because it almost killed me - I loved my ex-wife, best because my current wife is better for me in every way shape and form...)

I hope you are ok regardless what happens - Good Luck man!

and for those that tell him to "man up" - your not in his shoes, not living his life - I dont condone divorce either, but sometimes its for the best.
2 weeks? I don't think so man.
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Old 11-26-2012, 09:25 PM   #17
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Texas common law marriage requires you to make a declaration to the court that you're married, cohabitate for any period of time, and introduce yourself as a married couple.

If the three of those are not all met, you're not informally, or common law married.
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Old 11-26-2012, 10:06 PM   #18
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Lol listen to the bible thumper, take that bull**** somewhere else. She never wanted my money dickwad cause she makes 4/5 times more than me which is probably more than most make here. I was doing some research and its only 89 to file and that's it, i take my **** and leave hers. We just grew apart and my heart isn't anywhere close to being in it anymore. After losing my mom 2 1/2 years ago I think it has effected me in ways she doesn't understand or try fill the void. She has been pulling me away from friends and has recently tried pulling me away from my family. Not sure what has caused this but she expects me to hang out with her family and never see mine. She's my wife and should be supportive to my every need, but I get no love. We started having problems back in august and things have gotten to the point where I don't wanna live like this anymore. Is it wrong that I left? I don't really believe in divorce but I don't believe I shouldn't have to live unhappily ever after. At the end of the day you have to be happy with yourself right?!?!?!
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Old 11-26-2012, 10:12 PM   #19
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Lol listen to the bible thumper, take that bull**** somewhere else.
Just realized that guys name is orthadoxaru. Lol
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Old 11-26-2012, 10:24 PM   #20
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You only live once man, be happy.
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Old 11-27-2012, 12:40 AM   #21
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At the end of the day you have to be happy with yourself right?!?!?!
I'm happy with myself sometimes two or three times at the end of the day. Mostly in the shower.
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Old 11-27-2012, 12:44 AM   #22
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dont let reverse discrimination not let you go for the jugular.
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Old 11-27-2012, 12:48 AM   #23
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I'm happy with myself sometimes two or three times at the end of the day. Mostly in the shower.
Cleans up a lot easier.
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Old 11-27-2012, 03:49 AM   #24
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Kevin, that sucks man. Sounds like you've already made your decision, so I would get some actual legal advice rather than listen to a bunch of car enthusiasts. Good luck with everything.

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Old 11-27-2012, 07:10 AM   #25
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I'm happy with myself sometimes two or three times at the end of the day. Mostly in the shower.
James I wouldn't expect anything less brotha.

Mark, Joe, and everyone else with insight or kind words......Thanks i'll get through this, I've overcome a lot harder things in these past 5 years

I'm gonna make some phone calls today and to see what it takes to get it started.
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