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Old 12-03-2013, 08:19 PM   #3026
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Old 12-03-2013, 08:37 PM   #3027
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Old 12-03-2013, 08:39 PM   #3028
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Old 12-03-2013, 09:26 PM   #3029
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Ris, whats the Trav werd?
Making it easier for him to contact you Z06 and all, you know?




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Old 12-03-2013, 10:08 PM   #3030
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Making it easier for him to contact you Z06 and all, you know?




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LilSS is female. And they're friends.

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Old 12-03-2013, 11:53 PM   #3031
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Where is this epic i25 update!?
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Old 12-04-2013, 12:02 AM   #3032
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Haha A for effort
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Old 12-04-2013, 12:08 AM   #3033
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One of my teachers said I caught her staring at me.

WTF woman...my jimmies are not so easily rustled.

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F the I25 update, where's the Drako update?!?!?!
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Old 12-04-2013, 12:10 AM   #3034
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Old 12-04-2013, 12:13 AM   #3035
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Old 12-04-2013, 12:22 AM   #3036
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Old 12-04-2013, 12:24 AM   #3037
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Old 12-04-2013, 01:25 AM   #3038
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I said potential. Don't lose sleep over it as it will hopefully happen tomorrow.

I could really care less what draco is doing at this point. It's like reading a Curb Your Enthusiasm script, but a more depressing virgin edition.
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Old 12-04-2013, 07:14 AM   #3039
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You were my hero, man. I don't know what to believe anymore.
She's rustled them hard man...

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Hurts to use that gif since that was one of the ep's we watched on Monday.
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Old 12-04-2013, 09:03 AM   #3040
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Run down of what happened and the mass of feels that followed it.

Sunday evening, Jamie and I talked for a bit via text and made plans to hangout Wednesday evening.

After work on Monday, Jamie needed a ride home since her car had the flat. No biggie since we work at the same place. Once we get home I run in and change then swap out her tire for the spare. Again, no biggie. She said she may still get a ride to school with me in the AM anyway.

When I was done, she offered to buy me dinner as a thank you. I agreed and we went to wine bar next to our house.

During dinner we talked more and more about our past dates and what's happening in our prospective love lives. She said she's done with Jimmy and isn't interested in seeing him anymore. But she did have a date Tuesday with another guy, Jason, who she had been out with before. She said their first date was horrible since he was super shy.

I tell her about my failed dates with the various chicks over the weekend and how I hate this recurring issue of women sucking at life.

Topic switches to my scheduled vasectomy this Friday. She had already agreed that she would pick me up. She still asked me if I was sure about all of this and I told her I had been having some anxiety about the whole thing. Like what if I do regret it? What if you meet someone and you realize they're someone you want to have kids with? I tole her I was seriously on the fence and debating canceling the whole thing.

Anyway, we wrap up dinner and she suggest we head back to my place to watch Doctor Who (She's overly into sci-fi for a chick). I grab a bottle of wine and we head out.

We finish one bottle and I head back over to the bar to grab another. The night was going well. Nothing crazy, just had talked about what we're looking for in life, what we had in common, etc. In the midst of the conversation I find out there will be a showing of an English dubbed Evangelion 3.0 in January and I say she should join me. Enthusiastically says she'd love to. More nerd talk, how we should go together as the Doctor and Rose for next Halloween, etc. (Note: I normally don't make plans this far ahead of time. But I felt comfortable with it all since the week earlier she insisted that I be her date to her sisterís wedding in Sept. 2014...)

As we're sitting there working our way through another ep, she looks over at me and says, "Evan, honestly, how do you feel about me?"

Iím blindsided by this question. I never really expected her to say anything. I had been dropping subtle hints here and there during our conversations about dating, but never got anything in return. So I always wrote her off.

But not tonight, **** it, Iíll be honest. So I told her.

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I think youíre great. We share a lot in common, have a great time when weíre together, and find you very attractive. Honestly, youíre amazing
She comes back with the same. She said that sheís liked me since we met back in 2011/2012.

Not expecting that, I ask her what took her so long to say anything.

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Realizing I'd never have a better time than now, I just lean over and kiss her.

*Things happen that I'm not getting into detail about*

After all of that we talk some more. She asked me what I'd like her to do about her date tomorrow with Jason. I said I'd like for her not to go, but it's her call...that was the last mention about that.

I ask her what's up with all of this and what is going on. She tells me she wasn't expecting it to be more than just a sexual thing, but likes me a lot and doesn't want to get hurt (in the past, she mentioned that she's afraid of relationships thanks to her Ex) but would love to be with me in a serious manner. Another issue she had was the whole kids thing. She knows I'd be a great dad and admitted that she's thought about what it would be like to have children with me (Jamie has a fault of being too honest at times). Had I not known her for as long as I have, this would have sent me flying for the hills. But instead it gave me a major case of the feels.

I confided in her that like I said earlier in the evening, I was on the fence. If someone was going to trigger my rethinking of everything, it was going to be her. This girl I have liked for ages. A women I could see being the mother to my hypothetical children.

We cuddled in bed for another hour or so talking about everything. Everything seemed fine. She wasn't distant or acting funny.

At around 11 she gets up and gets ready to head back home (has to feed her cat). There was no mention of Wednesday's plans.

I walked her to the door and offered to walk her to her door. She said no need to and give me a hug. This is where things got weird all the sudden. There was no kiss, and she seemed sort of...different. I say good bye she said the same back. Those would be the last words I would hear from her...

About ten mins later I text her, "Hey, let me know if you still need that ride in the morning."

Nothing. Maybe she's busy getting ready for school. No worries.

I head to bed.

I couldn't sleep all night long. The events of that evening were running through my head. No idea what was going on. Still felt like a dream.

When I awoke, I expected to see a text on my phone from her about the ride.

Nothing.

Guess she didn't need. So I head into the office and go about my day.

I call my mom and we talk about the whole vasectomy thing. She says just wait another year and if I still want it, get it. If not, no worries.

I call the doctor and cancel the appointment.

It's now about 10a and I sent her another saying "have a good day at school"

Nothing.

It's now 3p and I'm all WTF mate.

I text Tweeter and give him a quick and dirty rundown on the situation. He tells me to relax. He gives me something to send to elicit a response. I thought it may be a bit much, but he said what do I have to lose?

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until you told me you wanted to be more than friends, I honestly didn't know if I wanted kids. Maybe you were right, it just took the right person to make me realize I was going to make a mistake. You're everything I never knew I wanted in a girl
Sent. Feels bomb away!

It's now 9a and nothing.

We were both invited to a party this Friday, but due to my procedure, I declined the invite. She had been bugging me to change the appointment so that we could go together.

Well she doesn't know I'm going to be there now....

No idea what the **** to do. I just hate it when I GENUINELY like someone, it falls apart. It's like karma or some ****. Which this puts me back in the "man-whore" cycle.



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Old 12-04-2013, 09:32 AM   #3041
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Ouch I25. She probably had too much feels and disappeared, scared. Let her work it out for herself at this point.
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Old 12-04-2013, 10:00 AM   #3042
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Ouch I25. She probably had too much feels and disappeared, scared. Let her work it out for herself at this point.
I'll be in the optimist camp and say her phone broke and her Internet/phone at her place is on the fritz.

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It's like a surfer seeing a 15 curl for the first time. Gotta push through the fear and ride that ****. Jussayin. Be patient.
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Old 12-04-2013, 10:02 AM   #3043
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Ouch I25. She probably had too much feels and disappeared, scared. Let her work it out for herself at this point.
Thats what I hope.


I feel like Draco right now.
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Old 12-04-2013, 10:03 AM   #3044
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Damn dude, that sucks. Like orn said, just give her time. But stop texting her. You said what needed to be said, and you made it clear that you wanted to talk.

Girls are weird.
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Old 12-04-2013, 10:06 AM   #3045
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Ouch I25. She probably had too much feels and disappeared, scared. Let her work it out for herself at this point.
This. I am guessing she's just as overwhelmed by it all as you are. Wasn't expecting it to all happen and for you to reciprocate the feels quite as much and as openly. She might be regretting being quite so open and honest about it and is talking to her gfs about it and what do do next.

Tough spot, but let it lie for now.
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Old 12-04-2013, 10:16 AM   #3046
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Damn dude, that sucks. Like orn said, just give her time. But stop texting her. You said what needed to be said, and you made it clear that you wanted to talk.

Girls are weird.
Haven't and won't send a text after yesterdays. Trying to figure out if I should make plans tonight with other friends...or leave it open in case she surfaces again.

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This. I am guessing she's just as overwhelmed by it all as you are. Wasn't expecting it to all happen and for you to reciprocate the feels quite as much and as openly. She might be regretting being quite so open and honest about it and is talking to her gfs about it and what do do next.

Tough spot, but let it lie for now.
Hopefully it's just that and she's going to come back around by Friday. Or else it will make for an interesting party. Luckily I know everyone that will be there too, and no one (to my knowledge) knows about what happened.

If she doesn't come around by then (either positive or negative), should I just let her be at the party and do my own thing?
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She is not a girlfriend, or an ex-girlfriend, just a friend. Treat her that way. Be friendly at the party if you two happen to cross paths, but leave the sexual tension and feels out as much as possible, let her come around to that on her own.
Similarly, tonight it seems to me plans with her are off. Hang out with friends but not a date.
Seems she sobered up and freaked a little.
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Old 12-04-2013, 10:55 AM   #3048
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She is not a girlfriend, or an ex-girlfriend, just a friend. Treat her that way. Be friendly at the party if you two happen to cross paths, but leave the sexual tension and feels out as much as possible, let her come around to that on her own.
Similarly, tonight it seems to me plans with her are off. Hang out with friends but not a date.
Seems she sobered up and freaked a little.
I should be good with remembering that and enforcing it.

Gotta see which of my male friends are around for a beer or 6. It's way easier for me to call a chick up, but they'll think its a date and want the D.

And currently.
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I25....what the ****, man?

Everything you do to attract women, you did the exact opposite with this one. You busted out the feels. Exploded on her all about how you felt. ****, you even told her you'd cancel your vasectomy because of her. WTF. Obviously it didn't take her long to figure out she can get you to change your whole life plans after one conversation. Then you keep texting her. For once I don't agree with the text Tweeter had you send. It compounded the feels conversation you had earlier that night. "Well, I know I just got done telling you all about how I feel about you, but in case you missed it, here it is again!" Is what that is saying.

Orndog summed it up nicely. Sounds like you need to seriously back off on this chick as that's what she's doing to you anyway. As hard as it's going to be, you're going to have to remove the focus off her as much as possible. Go back to not giving a flying ****. That is your style.
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Old 12-04-2013, 11:21 AM   #3050
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I25....what the ****, man?

you even told her you'd cancel your vasectomy because of her

Obviously it didn't take her long to figure out she can get you to change your whole life plans after one conversation.

Orndog summed it up nicely. Sounds like you need to seriously back off on this chick as that's what she's doing to you anyway. As hard as it's going to be, you're going to have to remove the focus off her as much as possible. Go back to not giving a flying ****. That is your style.
I was already having doubts prior to her telling me all of this and she knew that. Either way the appointment was going to be canned. Sure she may have been that extra push, but it wasn't solely due to her.

I agree I need to back away for now and just got back to not giving a ****. But it just sucks that when I do, it all comes crumbling down around me. Which again just gets me back into the "**** the world and bang bitches" mentality, but that doesn't lead to finding something long term.

Its a vicious cycle.


Going to Annapolis tonight to get some drinks with a few female friends. Keeping it multiple so it's not a date.
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