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Old 11-09-2003, 05:39 PM   #1
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Default how do you get a chick to stop obsessing over you?

So I'll try to make this short..

This girl I have known only for a couple of months really wanted the ****. So I gave it to her, two nights in a row (Both times she and I had been doing a fair amount of drinking) Anyways, now she wants some sort of relationship and/or really wants to hang out all the time. She is very cool and pretty cute, but I really don't want a relationship with her, or anyone right now.

She has called me a few times after I gave her my # and AIMs me constantly. She says stuff like "Come over after the party" or "If you need a break call me up".

How do I break it to her that I don't want to get tied up in this kind of thing right now without hurting her feelings? She is friends with my housemate and I am friends with her friends. I don't want this to F me over in the future.

[mysoginist on] Basically, should/how can I continue the sex thing and not make it into a relationship [mysoginist off]

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Old 11-09-2003, 05:45 PM   #2
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just tell her that you've had fun and she's cool but you're not looking for a relationship right now.

and no-- it is HIGHLY unlikely you can keep boinking her and expect her to not obsess over you. it would be fun for you, of course, but probably can't continue if you want her to chill.
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:46 PM   #3
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IDB. Without consent.

Relationship over.
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:48 PM   #4
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there is no relationship right now, but shes making it pretty clear that she wants one

oh and what is IDB?

<--- n3wb
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:48 PM   #5
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Go over to her house, sit on the couch and crap your pants.


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Old 11-09-2003, 05:51 PM   #6
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Go over to her house, sit on the couch and crap your pants.


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I didn't read the post, just the tread title, and I was going to say the exact same thing.
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:51 PM   #7
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Go over to her house, sit on the couch and crap your pants.


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That's hilarious!

I'm not sure if she would get it. She might think I was some geriatric who couldn't control their bowels?
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:52 PM   #8
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there is no relationship right now, but shes making it pretty clear that she wants one

oh and what is IDB?

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Old 11-09-2003, 05:52 PM   #9
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Go over to her house, sit on the couch and crap your pants.


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That'd be a deal breaker for me.


Dude, you can't keep hittin it and not hurt her feelings and the whole thing ending up in a big mess. Are you new?



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Old 11-09-2003, 05:54 PM   #10
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Ahh thanks, now I get kaisers comment


So I should just say the traditional "I just want to be friends"?
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:56 PM   #11
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So I should just say the traditional "I just want to be friends"?
While you're pounding her IDB, yes.
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:56 PM   #12
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So I should just say the traditional "I just want to be friends"?
Yes, and after you do, don't have sex with it again or you'll be in deep trouble.
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:57 PM   #13
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Yes, and after you do, don't have sex with it again or you'll be in deep trouble.
She said it!
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:58 PM   #14
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I, for one, am getting tired of Candy continually referring to women as objects!



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Old 11-09-2003, 06:01 PM   #15
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I dont agree with candy, after you have sex with it again after the "just friends" speech...youve formed yourself a booty call relationship.
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:01 PM   #16
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I, for one, am getting tired of Candy continually referring to women as objects!



I know!
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:06 PM   #17
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I dont agree with candy, after you have sex with it again after the "just friends" speech...youve formed yourself a booty call relationship.
No, no, no, this is where you guys screw it up. The only good booty call is the one in which both parties realize it's only sex. No, we're not going to movies together,no, we're not talking on the phone for hours, no, we're not having dinner together, none of that.
If she call you at 2:00am on a Saturday night after she's been partying with the girls and you're home, then you're hitting it. If it's raining outside and she feels like having sex, calls and comes over to hit it, and leaves. That's a booty call.
This girl calls and wants a b/f. Not booty call material, that will turn into, "I gave him the booty and he was a total jerk and took advantage of me" and she'll repeat that to every girl she knows, thereby blocking your chances of getting it on with her friends or anybody in that group, forever.
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:09 PM   #18
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No, no, no, this is where you guys screw it up. The only good booty call is the one in which both parties realize it's only sex. No, we're not going to movies together,no, we're not talking on the phone for hours, no, we're not having dinner together, none of that.
If she call you at 2:00am on a Saturday night after she's been partying with the girls and you're home, then you're hitting it. If it's raining outside and she feels like having sex, calls and comes over to hit it, and leaves. That's a booty call.
This girl calls and wants a b/f. Not booty call material, that will turn into, "I gave him the booty and he was a total jerk and took advantage of me" and she'll repeat that to every girl she knows, thereby blocking your chances of getting it on with her friends or anybody in that group, forever.
finally advice I can use!
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:11 PM   #19
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This girl calls and wants a b/f. Not booty call material, that will turn into, "I gave him the booty and he was a total jerk and took advantage of me" and she'll repeat that to every girl she knows, thereby blocking your chances of getting it on with her friends or anybody in that group, forever.
i was banging this chick for over a year...total booty calls. then i took her to the movies ONCE...and all of a sudden i was her 'boyfriend'.

my point is that she didnt have any friends...so my chances of getting 'blocked' are slim and none.
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hehe candy, you just described the traditional booty call. I described the use and abuse emotionally torn booty call.

They both end up being the same thing, ones just alot harder than the other.
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:14 PM   #21
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:21 PM   #22
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Welcome to the party. You only missed the beginning, middle and end parts.

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Old 11-09-2003, 06:26 PM   #23
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:28 PM   #24
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Hump her mom.



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Word, I saw pics of her mom on her desk, and i was like Plus she's an artist so she must be cool right?
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Old 11-09-2003, 07:56 PM   #25
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dont tell her that u dont like her, just lead her on then ignore them untill u do want a relationship, they never figure out whats going on, and they will keep liking u because if u act like u dont like them then they will like u more. girls always want what they cant get, or atleast in my situations like this, this plan has worked for me several times and u got a girl that will always want the cack
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