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Old 12-21-2003, 09:19 PM   #1
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Default Is this any reason for divorce?

One of my wife's friends got recently divorced.....

His reason for leaving her, then divorcing her?

Cause she wouldn't "kiss the pickle" anymore....

He hooked up with a neighbor down the street, who, evidently does....

Do you consider this a justifiable reason?
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:20 PM   #2
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the only good reason for divorce is money. Marry for money the first time, then for love after that
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:22 PM   #3
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the only good reason for divorce is money. Marry for money the first time, then for love after that
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:22 PM   #4
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no thats a horrible reason , but my dad is divorcing my mom. he says he still loves her but he needs to take control of is life or sumthin so whatever
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:23 PM   #5
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Yes. That works.
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:23 PM   #6
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Everyone has there reasons for buying and selling.
Thats commerce.

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Old 12-21-2003, 09:26 PM   #7
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She told my wife they had some fights over it and tried all avenues.......Begging, bribery, etc. Still, she was firm in her resolve, and finally he up and left, telling her that this was the reason.....I guess as a "last ditch" effort to resolve the situation....sounds pretty shallow to me, but what do I know?
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:27 PM   #8
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why does this sound familiar? Sounds like a thread we've already had...

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Old 12-21-2003, 09:33 PM   #9
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why doesnt he just it
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:38 PM   #10
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why doesnt he just it
I don't think there's any comparison between the two...
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:42 PM   #11
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can't your friend have a hoe and a housewife?
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:42 PM   #12
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it was just a thought


if he really loved this brod, the lack of receiving some dome wouldn't be an issue...he's been looking for a reason for a long time.
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:51 PM   #13
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Did he ask the reason why she won't do it? Maybe he has funky spunk. Maybe he's a gagger. Maybe there are two suspicious bumps where there shouldn't be any. Men are stupid, I hope she takes him for all he's worth.
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:54 PM   #14
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Ummmm, Uhhhhh. O.K I cannot respond now that awdity has brought up those subjects.
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Old 12-21-2003, 09:55 PM   #15
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Only reason I can see a divorce being acceptable would be adultery or abuse.
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Old 12-21-2003, 10:08 PM   #16
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I hope she takes him for all he's worth.
see, and that will take care of the first marriage (which was just for money anyhow), so she'll be free to marry for love next
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Old 12-21-2003, 10:12 PM   #17
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its as good a reason as any
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Old 12-21-2003, 10:41 PM   #18
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They never should have married in the first place if that's all it takes. My guess is there's another reason he doesn't want to 'fess to.
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Old 12-21-2003, 10:45 PM   #19
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wait . . . you need a reason?
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Old 12-21-2003, 10:46 PM   #20
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I guarantee he's lying and that she told him he's total crap in bed and it hurt his ego so now he wants a divorce. He's only telling you the "no head" story so he doesn't look like a total weenie.
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Old 12-21-2003, 10:46 PM   #21
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Bethcha he's hung like a fly.
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Old 12-21-2003, 10:53 PM   #22
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Bethcha he's hung like a fly.
I concur. He probably can't work it and makes funny whimpering noises, too.
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Old 12-21-2003, 11:02 PM   #23
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Bethcha he's hung like a fly.
I'd bet the same thing.

Further I bet he's lying about it.
Meaning its an excuse he's throwing out in lieu of the truth, he's just not into his wife now that he's met Betty Cocker from up the block.
If they have no kids between them and nobody gets hurt, I say split and be done with it. Both of them are losers and its just one more divorce amongst millions per year.

Personally I'd get past it and move on.
I mean isn't intercourse just as good if not better anyway.
I'll even bet his wife will let it in das pooper as a sort of in kind payment.

As for what you should do?
I'd stay out of it and tell my wife the same.

As a general rule I never get involved in my friends personal relationships. I can support them without advising them on how, what or when to do what, how or when in their home. Besides knowing that much about him and his wife is more than any other man should know anyway.

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Old 12-21-2003, 11:18 PM   #24
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Don't completely knock the guy.

One of my friends split with his wife since she was cheating on him. However, we only found this out last year, 4 years after the divorce. He told everyone that they were having intimacy issues, as in talking...couldn't confide in each other anymore. That was probably true, since she was cheating on him.

The thing was, she was suffering from depression, so he fell for that B.S. that people feed you, that he shouldn't come at her guns blazing, as it she wouldn't be able to handle it. So he decided to keep the cheating quiet. Although I know she only got a two year alimony plan, and it was an assistance setup, he did NOT completely pay for her. She just got to stay in their house until it was sold.

Many of my friends had made comments about him, that he wasn't dedicated enough to his wife(mostly my female friends said this) as they all assume the male is responsible for breaking up a marriage. Now they are all eating crow.
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