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View Poll Results: What to do?
Wait for girl one? 2 7.41%
See what girl two is all about? 9 33.33%
Nothing beats what you already know- girl 3? 3 11.11%
Turn gay and call b_Tapper? 13 48.15%
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:06 PM   #1
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OK.. so I have been reasonable single for a few months now and not really looking for anything.

Started talking to chick, but I haven't done anything with her yet. I like a lot about her, and I know once she "ties up a few loose ends" we would make a good couple. Busy lives, late nights, smae interests in the sack.

Girl 2 - girl I know from the bar. She's a sweetheart, would give the world for a guy. Honestly, I really want to tag it (she's like 5'2 90 lbs, has a perfectly balanced body, and moves very well). Date with her Saturday night. Dinner - dancing - drinks.

Girl 3 - Ex. From a long time ago. I haven't talked to her in years. Saw her for the first time not to long ago. We hit it off and all of the old feelings came back. Including the wrold of hurt we put eachother through when we were younger. Probably the best sex partner I have ever had. I have a date with her tonight, Bar hopping.

Girl 3 called me last night and said she can't stop thinking about me and wants to know if I want to start things slowly. When we dated, we just dated. I knew she was dating other, and she knew I was. So I think that's why we hurt eachother so bad. I told her I would think about it, and we'll see how tonight goes. She know's I may be in love with her, and I am trying to deny it, but I think I might be too.

So... Lets lets hear OT's opinions...
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:09 PM   #2
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Think very hard on why the Ex is an Ex.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:10 PM   #3
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Is Girl 1 still in some sort of relationship?
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:12 PM   #4
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btw you shoulda made it multiple. I think you should entertain #1 and #2 until one of them disserts herself.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:12 PM   #5
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invite all 3 over.............


you should know the rest.........



real advice......go with your heart.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:14 PM   #6
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5'2" 90?
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:14 PM   #7
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That crap happend to me the last time I was single.

I had these girls coming out of the woodwork! I was like "Where the hell were these girls when I was looking for them?"

I went out with all of them at varing times to weed out the crazy, evil, drama queen ones and I'm very happy to be with the girl I'm with now.

I've considered getting back together with my ex-wife after being apart for two years. We went through a lot but remained very good friends. I know we both have feeling for each other but I've decided to move on and keep her as a dear friend instead.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:15 PM   #8
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Is Girl 1 still in some sort of relationship?
Yes and no.

There's a guy, a friend, she has hooked up with. She hasn't hooked up with him in months. Roomate. He's the reason she can afford the nice house. She's a bartender and her income isn't the best. If she tells him she's dating some one, he's borderline unstable and could pack up and leave, which would put her in a world of hurt.

I told her up front, I respect girls enough that I wont bang different girls at the same time, and I expect the same. She respects that, so we have not made contact (outside) and are waiting until she finds a resolution to her problem.

I don't need OT questioning her, because I know the whole story and I beleive her. She isn't scamming, she's just stuck.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:15 PM   #9
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"ties up a few loose ends"
Trouble

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Girl 2 - girl I know from the bar. She's a sweetheart, would give the world for a guy. Honestly, I really want to tag it (she's like 5'2 90 lbs, has a perfectly balanced body, and moves very well). Date with her Saturday night. Dinner - dancing - drinks.
You can dooo it.


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Girl 3 - Ex. From a long time ago. I haven't talked to her in years. Saw her for the first time not to long ago. We hit it off and all of the old feelings came back. Including the wrold of hurt we put eachother through when we were younger. Probably the best sex partner I have ever had. I have a date with her tonight, Bar hopping.

Girl 3 called me last night and said she can't stop thinking about me and wants to know if I want to start things slowly. When we dated, we just dated. I knew she was dating other, and she knew I was. So I think that's why we hurt eachother so bad. I told her I would think about it, and we'll see how tonight goes. She know's I may be in love with her, and I am trying to deny it, but I think I might be too.
Super duper trouble. You haven't talked to her in years and now you might be in love with her? Trouble ^100 Theres a good chance that its just lust.

In summary #2 has a chance of not being painful so go for that.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:16 PM   #10
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Go with driggity. He's right.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:16 PM   #11
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That crap happend to me the last time I was single.
same here.. but all of them were psyco and/or compulsive liers.

in a dry spell... again.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:17 PM   #12
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Go with driggity.
I hope you mean go with my suggestion and not go with me. I'm taken.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:18 PM   #13
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same here.. but all of them were psyco and/or compulsive liers.
Step away from the mirror
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:19 PM   #14
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:20 PM   #15
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OK... #2.

She's cute. I like her. I think she likes me.

She's also a good friend of mine's Ex. She apparently went head case on him. I have his "permission"*, but I don't know if I want to get involved in that.




















*permission - Before the women go nuts over this, it's a moral code between guys. It's not an ownership thing, but a respect thing. You have to talk to the guy before going for his ex. In this case, Brian is highly encouraging me to get her off his back and he can move on.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:20 PM   #16
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5'2" 90?
And she's not skinny as a rail?

Damn, my wife is 5'1" and was 98 pounds (before present pregnancy) and was tiny.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:21 PM   #17
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That crap happend to me the last time I was single.

Me too. Only I had guys and girls coming out of the woodwork.
In one night, three guys I knew drove by my house. One guy came over on a Sunday evening, (and I can't belive he confessed this), and peeked in my bedroom window. He thought about knocking, but he saw me reading and left me alone. My boss is a lesbian, so every time I went out with her somewhere teh gay wimmenz hit on me, and my boss flirted with me. I don't know if it was pheromones or what, but I definitely had my mojo working then.
The funniest part is that I was so hung up on teh ex, I didn't hit any of it.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:21 PM   #18
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head case, 4X4. But you're assured she won't go head case on you?
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:22 PM   #19
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OK... #2.

She's cute. I like her. I think she likes me.

She's also a good friend of mine's Ex. She apparently went head case on him. I have his "permission"*, but I don't know if I want to get involved in that.

*permission - Before the women go nuts over this, it's a moral code between guys. It's not an ownership thing, but a respect thing. You have to talk to the guy before going for his ex. In this case, Brian is highly encouraging me to get her off his back and he can move on.

Trouble with a capital 'T'!!

I've done this too, worked well at first but turned out to be a flake with many issues!
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:22 PM   #20
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OK... #2.

She's cute. I like her. I think she likes me.

She's also a good friend of mine's Ex. She apparently went head case on him. I have his "permission"*, but I don't know if I want to get involved in that.


I knew it was too good to be true! They're all trouble! Honey, just party with your friends and hook up with somebody that isn't still filling up their already heavy baggage, to the brim.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:23 PM   #21
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She's also a good friend of mine's Ex. She apparently went head case on him.
Kind of an important tid bit to leave out, don't you think. If she is a semi-regular at the bar you work out this could lead to more trouble.

I change my vote to #4, the cheap mailorder Russian bride.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:24 PM   #22
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Rick - If you're going to date multiple girls, make sure they are the type that won't get hurt badly when you end it with one of them. cause you can't carry on with more thn one for long, I'd imagine. so #2 would be tough in that case.

EDIT - if you only want to go with one girl tho, my vote was for #2.

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Old 03-05-2004, 02:25 PM   #23
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I've been single for 7 months now. Please pass whoever you don't go with to me. Thanks in advance.
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:25 PM   #24
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I change my vote to #4, the cheap mailorder Russian bride.
Nothing about them is cheap
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Old 03-05-2004, 02:25 PM   #25
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You shouldn't even be considering your ex. If you think you may be in love again, it's probably with the person she was years ago when you were dating (before things took a dump). Ditto for her. You're both different people now. Trying to live a fantasy will only hurt both of you even more.

Girl #1 needs to get her ish together and gain some independence. Don't consider her until she does so.

Girl #2 sounds like a classic psycho. Hit it and run.
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