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Old 08-09-2004, 04:36 PM   #1
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Default GF broke up with me because I am too busy, meet 4 other women in the meantime and now

.. My ex GF wants to meet to talk on Wed..... Should I? Im really torn right now because I DO enjoy the single life, but then again I miss always having someone there for me
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:37 PM   #2
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What does your penis tell you to do?

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Old 08-09-2004, 04:37 PM   #3
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tell her your still hurt, but that you are willing to date her.
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:38 PM   #4
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Tell her you want to try sex0rz first(with IDP), then relationship second.
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:38 PM   #5
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No. Reread your post and you can tell that meeting her doesn't really matter to you. If she doesn't really matter to you, why bother?
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:39 PM   #6
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Do you miss someone, or do you miss her?

If it's that you're loney, DO NOT GO TALK TO HER BECAUSE YOU WILL GET SUCKED IN AND IT WILL RUIN YOOOOUUU!!!!

If it's because you truly miss her in particular, then sure, why not.
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:42 PM   #7
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:42 PM   #8
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:43 PM   #9
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:45 PM   #10
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Aod! That's Nws!!!
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:47 PM   #11
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Aod! That's Nws!!!
Don't look at it then.
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:48 PM   #12
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No. Reread your post and you can tell that meeting her doesn't really matter to you. If she doesn't really matter to you, why bother?

Right on Candy, good ****ing point.

As for all the other OTers , IDP is something she enjoys

But I wont go back to a women just for sex.. I DO miss her, but why hurt her if its just not going to work out again.
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:50 PM   #13
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But I wont go back to a women just for sex.. I DO miss her, but why hurt her if its just not going to work out again.
EXACTLY!
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:51 PM   #14
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As for all the other OTers , IDP is something she enjoys
Good lord man, you've just broken all of their hearts! Tossing away perfectly good IDP like that!
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:51 PM   #15
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you obviously don't need a girlfriend.
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:51 PM   #16
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EXACTLY!

W3rd, now how to cancel the plans for Wednesday without looking like an ******* in case emotions are different in the future











the truth?
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Old 08-09-2004, 04:52 PM   #17
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Good lord man, you've just broken all of their hearts! Tossing away perfectly good IDP like that!
IDP isnt really hard to come by if you go about it the correct way.

They may never learn that though
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:03 PM   #18
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W3rd, now how to cancel the plans for Wednesday without looking like an ******* in case emotions are different in the future











the truth?
You have to be honest, because she'll just want to reschedule if you cancel Wednesday.
Something like," I've thought it over and I don't think it's a good time for us to see each other. Maybe I'll feel differently later, but I just can't do it right now. I hope you understnad because you really mean a lot to me and I dod't want any hurt feelings."

If she presses you, wash rinse, repeat. "I just can't do it right now." If she's peristent, "I really have to go, I'm sorry." Click.
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:05 PM   #19
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You have to be honest, because she'll just want to reschedule if you cancel Wednesday.
Something like," I've thought it over and I don't think it's a good time for us to see each other. Maybe I'll feel differently later, but I just can't do it right now. I hope you understnad because you really mean a lot to me and I dod't want any hurt feelings."

If she presses you, wash rinse, repeat. "I just can't do it right now." If she's peristent, "I really have to go, I'm sorry." Click.
w3rd, once again DAMN THE TRUTH...

It really does work

I think the main reason I want to get back together with her is pure jealousy, the old "dont want anyone else to have her" typea thing...
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:07 PM   #20
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You have to be honest, because she'll just want to reschedule if you cancel Wednesday.
Something like," I've thought it over and I don't think it's a good time for us to see each other. Maybe I'll feel differently later, but I just can't do it right now. I hope you understnad because you really mean a lot to me and I dod't want any hurt feelings."

If she presses you, wash rinse, repeat. "I just can't do it right now." If she's peristent, "I really have to go, I'm sorry." Click.
i'd just dodge her like crazy. you're washing your hair, you dropped your pocket and have to go find it, you need to change your blinker fluid, too much homework, you've got a date with Heidi Klum's stunt double . . . anything but the "it's too soon" answer because then she'll think that maybe, just maybe, you still got feelings.
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:08 PM   #21
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I think the main reason I want to get back together with her is pure jealousy, the old "dont want anyone else to have her" typea thing...
Here's some more truth for you then: Don't think about it. It's just negative energy to think about it. You're both obviously young and nowhere near getting married, so let it go, be thankful you had such a sweetie, and move on with life.

Also, it's best to have NO CONTACT after a break-up.

contact with ex= sex with ex = back to square one = old problems come right back = you teh stoopid. Just say NO.
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:09 PM   #22
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Tell her you have a date that night and can only meet for x amount of time. Just remember, no matter how good looking a chic is, somewhere a guy is tired of her. You are that guy.
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:09 PM   #23
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:10 PM   #24
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i'd just dodge her like crazy. you're washing your hair, you dropped your pocket and have to go find it, you need to change your blinker fluid, too much homework, you've got a date with Heidi Klum's stunt double . . . anything but the "it's too soon" answer because then she'll think that maybe, just maybe, you still got feelings.
That's what he wants her to think. I think it's a bad idea to lead the exes on, but he wanted to know how to cancel and yet keep her on the back burner. That's why I responded the way I did.

I've done the dodging thing in the past, it made me feel like a slimy weakling and when I saw the person again, I felt lower than pond scum.
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Old 08-09-2004, 05:12 PM   #25
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Tell her you have a date that night and can only meet for x amount of time. Just remember, no matter how good looking a chic is, somewhere a guy is tired of her. You are that guy.
If he wants to remain single, he can't do this. They'll end up back in bed and he'll be in a relationship again.
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