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Old 09-21-2004, 06:30 PM   #1
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Long story short. We finally got my brother in law in rehab. His girlfriend has control issues and is calling the family all the time. Now she is asking for $500 for an abortion. We don't think she is really pregnant. She is also started to threaten family members. My brother in law is in Chicago, and she is in Florida.I need to know if I need to go to florida to put a restraining order on her and is it possible to block cell phone numbers? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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Old 09-21-2004, 06:55 PM   #2
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call a lawyer and ask him/her
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Old 09-21-2004, 07:13 PM   #3
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Right now I am looking for free advice while I get my ducks in a row.
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Old 09-21-2004, 07:17 PM   #4
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If you call your phone company it'll take about 10 minutes to get the calls blocked. I would have to assume that you could and would have to get the restraining order where you are, because the police in YOUR area would have to enforce it, and might not recognize a restraining order from another state.
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Old 09-21-2004, 07:25 PM   #5
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Long story short. We finally got my brother in law in rehab. His girlfriend has control issues and is calling the family all the time. Now she is asking for $500 for an abortion. We don't think she is really pregnant. She is also started to threaten family members. My brother in law is in Chicago, and she is in Florida.I need to know if I need to go to florida to put a restraining order on her and is it possible to block cell phone numbers? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Ryan
wth is going on here... he's your brother in law, but has a psycho GF... um shouldn't a brother in law have a WIFE? like um, your sister maybe?



this sounds like a good one for Springer though.
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Old 09-21-2004, 07:28 PM   #6
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I think he means his wife's brother.

And I'd take the whole abortion thing seriously. If your brother in law isn't morally opposed to it it may be a better choice than finding out that he has a kid.
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Old 09-21-2004, 07:30 PM   #7
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heh, long day.
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Old 09-21-2004, 07:47 PM   #8
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wth is going on here... he's your brother in law, but has a psycho GF... um shouldn't a brother in law have a WIFE? like um, your sister maybe?



this sounds like a good one for Springer though.
You have to be smarter than the thread Colin.
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Old 09-21-2004, 07:49 PM   #9
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Give her the $500 and a verbal statement that your family and brother don't ever want to see or hear from her again.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.
Focus on your brother and leave the bags at the curb.

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Old 09-21-2004, 08:03 PM   #10
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I really don't want to give her the money without proof of her preg. I know she is heavy into drugs and has already comented that this is going to be a drug babie. She told us that it is a girl, but she is only 5 weeks preg. Thats what tells me that this is BS. Plus I don't think that she will just leave after getting the money.
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Old 09-21-2004, 08:37 PM   #11
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Give her the $500 and a verbal statement that your family and brother don't ever want to see or hear from her again.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.
Focus on your brother and leave the bags at the curb.

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I second that. It's what I would do.....if all else fails, I guess we can send her the link to the abortion thread on the OT.

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hmm..i take that back. someone needs to take her to the abortion clinic and pay for the abortion there. don't want your brother in law stuck with child support for the next 18 years.
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Old 09-21-2004, 08:58 PM   #12
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$500 sounds pretty high.
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Old 09-21-2004, 09:26 PM   #13
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$500 sounds pretty high.

Yeah, try ebay.
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Old 09-21-2004, 09:44 PM   #14
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Old 09-21-2004, 09:49 PM   #15
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...someone needs to take her to the abortion clinic and pay for the abortion there. don't want your brother in law stuck with child support for the next 18 years.
I agree with Noir.

Send a trusted friend or relative or yourself to escort the garbage to the processing center and make sure things are takien care of.
Afterward put her in a cab heading out of town.

As for the cost thats inline with what I recall my buds having paid locally for abortions ($400+/-).
Don't sweat the money just tax your brother when he's back on his feet. Believe me paying the $500 is nothing compared the time & aggravavtion potential this piece of crap might become both personally and legally.
In situations like this always keep your cool, think business like and think of the big picture looking for the upside.
The last thing you and your family needs is a drug adled whore hangin' around at your front door causing a stink much less weaseling her way into your family gene pool bringing it down.

Best of luck to you and your brother.
All around this sucks.

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Old 09-21-2004, 09:55 PM   #16
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Send her a coat hanger.
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Old 09-21-2004, 10:33 PM   #17
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yeah make it worthwhile to the skank. take her and pay for the abortion. make a deal with her (i.e. give her a few hundred to buy crack with) to have that abortion. after it's all said and done, sever all ties to this skank.

hope your brother has more sense than to snake into her pants again. she sounds like mucho trouble.
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Old 09-22-2004, 04:46 AM   #18
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Thanks for all the advice. I guess I need to plan a trip down to Jacksonville and take care of this.
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Old 09-22-2004, 07:51 AM   #19
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I dont think you can tell the gender in only being 5 weeks into pregnancy. She is bs'ing you.
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Old 09-22-2004, 08:33 AM   #20
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The ultrasound performed at 20 weeks is the one where you can find out the sex of the child
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Old 09-22-2004, 08:48 AM   #21
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Send her a coat hanger.

That was gross, and in bad taste
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Old 09-22-2004, 08:50 AM   #22
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Tell her it's not your problem.

Call the phone company and block her phone number.

Don't freak out, use technology to your advantage. If she keeps calling, forward your phone number to the police department (let your friends know first!)
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Old 09-22-2004, 08:52 AM   #23
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That was gross, and in bad taste
What, maybe she needs to hang up her clothes
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What, maybe she needs to hang up her clothes

you know he wasn't talking about that
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Old 09-22-2004, 08:54 AM   #25
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I know she is bsing us. I am trying to find the best way to get her to go away and stay away. My wife and I are considering driving down to confront her and demand proof. I am also going to talk to a lawyer to find out about a restraining order.
She already has 1 child and has admitted to using drugs frequently. I am also going to call child services and report the drug use, so that they can look into the welfare of the other kid.
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