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Old 12-15-2004, 01:47 PM   #1
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Default When did you say the L word to your S.O.?

Just curious how long you dated your g/f b/f before you said the three little words: "I love you". I'm really scared about saying it.. scared of the committment that comes behind it the words.
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Old 12-15-2004, 01:47 PM   #2
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2 minutes....right after se--- nevermind
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Old 12-15-2004, 01:53 PM   #3
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I knew mine as a friend for a year when we got serious it was only 1 month after b4 i said it.
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Old 12-15-2004, 01:55 PM   #4
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hmmmm..... was a while. had a girl say it to me after 2 days. wheeeeeee.....
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Old 12-15-2004, 01:56 PM   #5
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3 months, and she said it to me bnefore i coudl say it to her.

i have issues with "i love you" being thrown around by peopel who don't knwo what it really means

i have never told anyeon i loved them til i met her, i did and now i am engaged
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:00 PM   #6
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after about 4 months....in a loud bar....and she was more drinker than me. She didn't reply and I thought "hhmmmm.....did she not hear me or did she just blow me off?"

well, I'm married to her now so I think she blew me off
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:01 PM   #7
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I've only said that to 3 girls in my life and I'm 29. Usually it was around the 1-2 month range.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:02 PM   #8
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Every girlfriend except 1 has told me she loves me in under a month. My current girlfriend keeps telling my things like "you're the most amazing man I have ever met.". I wondering if she'll make it past 1 month mark (she's got 4 days left).

I have never been the first to say I love you.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:08 PM   #9
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After about 3 months I believe.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:10 PM   #10
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> 1 month. Its not like its meaningless, but its also not equivalent to "marry me".
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:10 PM   #11
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DWR, did you tell this woman that you invented the term WAPCE by chance? no?
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:11 PM   #12
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I have never been the first to say I love you.
*nodding* As the guy, you simply can't say it first.

On the other side of the coin, I'll reiterate that I don't know why people think it's some kind of light switch. If you like someone, like sexing them, miss them when they're not around, feel sad when bad things happen to them, etc., you love them. It's not like at some certain point My Little Pony is going to appear from the sky and tell you you're in love.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:12 PM   #13
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What nobody's saying is we all wish we never said it.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:14 PM   #14
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What nobody's saying is we all wish we never said it.
Indeed, it's the beginning of the end of your manhood
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:20 PM   #15
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3 months, and she said it to me bnefore i coudl say it to her.

i have issues with "i love you" being thrown around by peopel who don't knwo what it really means

i have never told anyeon i loved them til i met her, i did and now i am engaged
I'm similiar... I don't want to throw I love you around either. All the girls I've dated in the past I've never said it to.. but this girl I knew for about 6 months before we got together.. and we became really good friends in the 2 months leading up to it. We've been together a little over a month now. She's different - not like other girls (hence why I'm with her).

Also I don't think she'd ever say it first.. she likes the guy to take the initiative.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:21 PM   #16
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We'd been dating for about a month (but had spent pretty much 100% of our free time together). At a party at her house, after I'd had a few drinks in me, she did something funny and I blurted out "You're so cute... I love you!"

At the same time, we both realized what I'd just said.

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Her: "...Really?"
Me: "Uh... Yeah."
Her: "Awww... I love you, too!"
Me: (still reeling)

It's been a year and a few months and we'll most likely be engaged soon.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:21 PM   #17
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I had one girl say it to me after a week, but I was the one to say it to my wife after we had been dating for about 5-6 months and she was the only girl I ever said it to.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:23 PM   #18
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*nodding* As the guy, you simply can't say it first.

On the other side of the coin, I'll reiterate that I don't know why people think it's some kind of light switch. If you like someone, like sexing them, miss them when they're not around, feel sad when bad things happen to them, etc., you love them. It's not like at some certain point My Little Pony is going to appear from the sky and tell you you're in love.
except there is committment behind it...if you love someone you're not going to abandon them when the going gets rough.

like =! love
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:24 PM   #19
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My teeth are hurting.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:27 PM   #20
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Me:
Her: "...Really?"
Me: "Uh... Yeah."
Her: "Awww... I love you, too!"
Me: (still reeling)
I like that story haha.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:33 PM   #21
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DWR, did you tell this woman that you invented the term WAPCE by chance? no?
Good question. Not sure if I have or not. Pretty sure I've told her I made it into the urban dictionary though. So I would assume I have, but not positive.
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Old 12-15-2004, 02:34 PM   #22
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It's not like at some certain point My Little Pony is going to appear from the sky and tell you you're in love.
So I should stop waiting?
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