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Old 02-18-2005, 01:36 PM   #1
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Default Why do I feel like I am sucking at teh L1fe

I am expecting lots of flaming but that's what makes OT well.... OT and I don't think I would like it any other way but on with the story....

I had a rainy day epiphany today while driving to work and I have come to the conclusion that this year has been sucking. I am feeling like such a ****ing loser; I could guess that the only reason I feel this way is because a girl I really really really liked just told me that "... she has a gut feeling that things aren't going to work out between us", which deeply hurt me. I happen to apply myself a 110% to almost everything I do and obviously my best, is not ****ing good enough. I feel that I am fortunate to meet this person and I am happy, on the outside, to still be friends with her but I think it would strike me down to see someone as great as her with someone other than me.

I reflect on this year and I really cant look back on anything I have done since January 1st , 2005 and say "wow, that was great". Maybe I am too mature for my age or maybe I just take everything too seriously but c'mon what am I doing wrong? I go to school full time, work at a law firm, drive a WRX, I am intelligent and funny and in great shape, I am good looking (at least I have been told) yet every morning I wake up feeling like I have only tapped 0.00001% of my life.

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Old 02-18-2005, 01:37 PM   #2
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Do some LSD. Then you'll know a lot more than you thought you did.

Alternatively, pull your head out of your ass.
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Old 02-18-2005, 01:38 PM   #3
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because you are?
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Old 02-18-2005, 01:39 PM   #4
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Maybe I am too immature for my age or maybe I just take everything too seriously but c'mon what am I doing wrong?
Fixed.



Dude, it's only February. Don't you think it's a little silly and unreasonable to feel like you're a failure just becuase you haven't done anything "great" in one month?


I'm sorry your girl ain't feeling you, but we all go through that same thing and you will survive it. I think you should consider cutting off contact before she finds somebody else though.
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Old 02-18-2005, 01:39 PM   #5
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Man, your life is a soap opera.
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Old 02-18-2005, 01:41 PM   #6
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Why do I feel like I am sucking at teh L1fe
b3c4u53 u r sucking at teh L1fe.

There is always a bright side to everything. With relationships, they can't work unless both paeople want them to work; by choosing a goofy user name on a message board, you let everyone know that you have good taste in soap, and probably shower at least occasionally.
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Old 02-18-2005, 01:42 PM   #7
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live every day to the fullest
learn to let go what you cannot control
if you don't, then every day of yrou life will be spent building up to somehting that you will never get to, and thne you will die, and be regretting never doing what you wanted.
and i knwo it is a cheesy quote, but it truelly does ring true in yrou situation
Only after losing everything, can you achieve anything.

you are not your fancy job
you are not your car
you are not the way you look
Get out, enjoy life, there is a lot out there if you bother to look

and finally one from van wielder, that i use a lot
Don't take life too seriously, you may never get out alive


seriously, your sweet job, your sweet car, your body, what part of that is going to be good for you when you are stuck in a law firm 17+ hours a day, working your ass off so some partner can get fatter pockets. just so you can vacation in thailand a few times?

Is it worth it?
Go form there man, i love my jobs, i love very day of my life, I wake up happy, I party/have fun/work all day and live hard. I have never looked back and said "gee i shoulda done that" because i just do it

and quit listening to emo

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Old 02-18-2005, 02:02 PM   #8
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You have 2 choices.

1. Stop sucking so much
2. </yourself>
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:02 PM   #9
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... and quit listening to emo
I dont, I am not a huge emo fan
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:23 PM   #10
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I dont, I am not a huge emo fan
then follow the rest of my advice....it's quality stuff
it is what i live by, and i am happy 99% of the day(sad some time i am sure)
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:25 PM   #11
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you need to find a soul mate.
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:27 PM   #12
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:38 PM   #13
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You sound like you don't have any reason to be feeling sorry for yourself. Dude, there will be other girls. Don't let your happiness be dependant on some girl, that's just setting yourself up for feeling sh***y. Jk, that's not always true, but sometimes you just gotta move on and save yourself some grief. Anyways, it's easier to feel depressed during this time of year, called seasonal depression. Just shake it off and think about all the POSITIVE aspects of your life. Chances are that you got more going for you than not.
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:39 PM   #14
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:43 PM   #15
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The girl sees you as a friend, you want more than that, she doesn't, your ego is bruised, sounds like you got your life on the right track, don't let this de-rail you, at the same time take care of yourself and cut her off, if you feel bad now think about how it will feel to see her banging a guy who isn't half of what you are, simply because he didn't make the mistake of falling into the friend zone, cut your losses, move on to the next girl, otherwise, your life will become as bad as the punctuation in this post.
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:44 PM   #16
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Old 02-18-2005, 02:46 PM   #17
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oh and PM pullinputs for women problems. he knows them all too well!
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Old 02-18-2005, 03:32 PM   #18
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Old 02-18-2005, 04:30 PM   #19
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I <3 Propecia

I am taking it and hair is t3h gr0w back

I think it was stress induced

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Old 02-18-2005, 07:07 PM   #20
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I think this needs a Janq esq reply
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Old 02-18-2005, 07:30 PM   #21
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i think i know the feeling your talking about, i call it winter in MN while being a single student. luckly this winter has been a break from the norm, and i had a super kick ass year thus far.

seriously, if JUST the past month has been a bummer.... don't be a emo.
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Old 02-18-2005, 07:31 PM   #22
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go get a whoooore.
and quit your bishin.
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Old 02-20-2005, 10:57 PM   #23
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ok i dont feel any ****ing better
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Old 02-20-2005, 11:19 PM   #24
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Its barely been two months to the year man!
A) Theres no need to have to do something big and great every second of your life.
B)You dont have to be 110 percent all the time.
C)If you dont like what your doing, do something different.
D) its that time of year, people are feeling down, stand up straight and go on with your day. Dont mope about it
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Old 02-20-2005, 11:24 PM   #25
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get in a fight it makes you feel better, especially if you get your ass kicked
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