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Old 02-23-2006, 05:41 AM   #1
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Default Need advice, stripper situation. Not a good first off-topic topic, I know.

I figure my first post in off topic might as well be a good one, so heres my thing. Its female related, which should go over well with the crew here, but no pictures will be posted unless I get GOOD ADVICE. Thats right, you heard me. While Ill appreciate, chuckle, LOL, forward, or otherwise enjoy snappy comments, only truly helpful advice will elicit pictars. And possibly un-naked ones at that.

So here I am, in a nice relationship, dating a nice girl (1.5 years). To make an exceedingly long story short, my girlfriend got tired of waiting tables (Cheesecake Factory) and decided to take a cocktailing job at a go-go bar. Saw the money that strippers were making and decided, after much mutual discussion, that she would start to strip herself. I can suss out further details of the situation if necessary.

As far as Im concerned, shes a non drug using non-drinker whos one of those girls whos almost irritatingly into me. If I was worried about blowjobs and cocaine, I would not have advised her to take the position. I am however, wrestling with her making over $500 in a night, while Im slaving away as a waiter for 40 hours making only 800-900 a week.

So off-topic, in your infinite wisdom and experience, what should I expect and watch out for? How soon can I expect a cadre of stripper friends that I get to hang out with? When do the free cocaine and naked stripper parties start? Advice is appreciated, k thx.

Ps. This post would be way funnier and well written if I wasnt battling Stolichnaya for possession of my liver.

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Cliffs notes: girlfriend started stripping, how do I cope with the emasculation of making multiples less money and possibilities of sleazy behavior.
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Old 02-23-2006, 05:51 AM   #2
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Drop her like a bad habit
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Old 02-23-2006, 06:52 AM   #3
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It all depends on what kind of head she has on her shoulders. I've known girls that were strippers and it was just a job, not a lifestyle...and others where it's the other way around. If you have a problem with it, that's your problem.
You shouldn't feel like any less of a man because she makes more money than you. If she starts to change into a different person, then dump her....if not, be happy and spend all her hard earned dough.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:12 AM   #4
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I went into the wrong profession, I need to become a waiter.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:13 AM   #5
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So off-topic, in your infinite wisdom and experience, what should I expect and watch out for?
you answered your own question ...

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a select few end up dancing for a short time. once one becomes accustomed to that kind of cash and attention, it's tough to go back to being "normal" unless you're catherine willows.

as far as you having a problem with her making more than you, that's a totally different issue.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:16 AM   #6
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a good mspaint could come out of this - but it's too early in the morning.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:18 AM   #7
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Not a good first off-topic topic, I know.

No, this is a GREAT first topic for Off-Topic!
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:18 AM   #8
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a good mspaint could come out of this - but it's too early in the morning.
What? never too early....get to work.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:23 AM   #9
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Oh boo-hoo, you're emasculated because she's making more money than you?

Paging 1950, you left someone behind. Come get them.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:24 AM   #10
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hahaha your are in the exact position i was in three years ago...We were a young couple in a pinch for cash. We were both making an honest living from paycheck to paycheck (considering owning an apartment two cars and credit card payments). Somehow we ventured to Spearmint Rhino, and my girl got the job. We were no longer living from paycheck to paycheck, however our relationship suffered. She became crabby and moody and even more insecure of her looks. The money was nice (approximately $200 a night from mon-wed and anywhere ranging from $200-$800 on weekends) but since our relationship became difficult she ended up quitting within a year. Fast forward to today...She doesn't regret doing it, however it's something that she won't resort to because now we both have wonderful careers! Wild times indeed
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:24 AM   #11
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This thread needs more :coffeemug:
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:24 AM   #12
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I have known strippers that stayed "good girls", but they are few and far between. Most end up at least chain smoking alcoholics, addicted to desire, and start either treating sex like a job requirement (even if they don't have sex at work, they get so tired of selling their sexuality to every man in the bar for tips that they don't want to think about it at home) or more often like some depraved addiction in reaction to their own unvoiced feelings about what they're doing. Short answer: your sex life will never be normal if you date a stripper. The money is good, but the cost is too high.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:27 AM   #13
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but no pictures will be posted unless I get GOOD ADVICE.[/b]
post one pic...and ill give you good advice since i went through the exact same thing.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:37 AM   #14
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Get a pole installed in your living room for the parties to follow!
Why does it matter if she makes more $$$...so long as she shares.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:41 AM   #15
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More money: who cares
Coke and ****: may be a future concern
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:42 AM   #16
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I would say that it all depends on why she is doing it. There is something to be said for not taking the easy road and having some hard times to struggle through. Do you guys really need the extra cash that bad? I would advise her against it, because taking a job like that has the potential to screw with her head in a big way.

If she was my girl I would tell her that I trust her and that she should make her own decision, but I don't think it's the best idea.
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:43 AM   #17
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IMO, it's not about her, it's about you. Can you handle the fact that your girlfriend is taking it off for other men? Will you be able to handle it in 3 months, when she has a whole lot more bank than you and has a few "regulars" going to see her frequently?
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:47 AM   #18
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It really depends on your state laws. For example in some states a lap dance can get pretty "intimate." I'm not sure I'de be comfortable with my girl rubbing her bare snatch on some greasy dudes leg, but hey maybe I'm old fashioned. Lets see them pics now!
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Look at it this way. Would you be proud to tell your family and friends that this is my girl and she strips for a living? If you don't honestly care and you do trust her and trust in the fact that it won't affect here than I don't see a problem.
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I am however, wrestling with her making over $500 in a night, while Im slaving away as a waiter for 40 hours making only 800-900 a week.
Rich? Is that you?
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:50 AM   #21
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Old 02-23-2006, 08:50 AM   #22
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It really depends on your state laws. For example in some states a lap dance can get pretty "intimate." I'm not sure I'de be comfortable with my girl rubbing her bare snatch on some greasy dudes leg, but hey maybe I'm old fashioned. Lets see them pics now!

I group of my friends was up at a strip club in Baltimore called Wagon Wheel. Nothing too crazy, just your run of the mill dancing and lap dance establishment. That is of course until every stripper that anyone had a lap dance with offered to let their customer finger them for an extra $20.

All I'm saying is you know some of the stirppers didn't want to do that at first, but they saw all the cash others were making and thought too themsleves, "hey I could be coming home with an extra $200 a night if I did.". Sound familiar?

Money is the root of all evil.
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I group of my friends was up at a strip club in Baltimore called Wagon Wheel. Nothing too crazy, just your run of the mill dancing and lap dance establishment. That is of course until every stripper that anyone had a lap dance with offered to let their customer finger them for an extra $20.

All I'm saying is you know some of them didn't want to do that at first, but hey I could coming home with an extra $200 a night if I did.

Love of money is the root of all evil.
Fixed.
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Fixed.
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