That's right, I want to hear all of the stories of fellow I-Clubers hooking up with someone married. Was it worth it? Did their husband/wife find out? Did you know they were married when you hooked up with them?

Steve

I hook up with a married chick 3-4 times a week. :D

me too....

Originally posted by I am b
I hook up with a married chick 3-4 times a week. :D

:eek:











:lol:

That's too funny!:lol:

Steve

I came close once - divorced all of 2 hrs. & we hooked up. That's the best I got.

just my wife

Personally, I've kicked a married woman out of my hotel room when I found out she was married. I was like "get some respect for yourself, bitch!" She didn't like that very much, but I'm sure if her husband or children found out about it they'd be very thankful to me.

I'd also like to volunteer to beat the hell out of anybody who has had sex with someone who is married to someone else... or cheated on their own spouse for that matter.

You are the lowest form of human life and don't deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us.

:monkey:

Well said! I'd rather associate with murderers than with low lifes that cheat. Play one game or the other; either be single and slut it up all you like, or marry; but if you marry you have no business cheating. :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Porter
Personally, I've kicked a married woman out of my hotel room when I found out she was married. I was like "get some respect for yourself, bitch!" She didn't like that very much, but I'm sure if her husband or children found out about it they'd be very thankful to me.

I'd also like to volunteer to beat the hell out of anybody who has had sex with someone who is married to someone else... or cheated on their own spouse for that matter.

You are the lowest form of human life and don't deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us.

:monkey:

Originally posted by Porter

I'd also like to volunteer to beat the hell out of anybody who has had sex with someone who is married to someone else... or cheated on their own spouse for that matter.

You are the lowest form of human life and don't deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us.

:monkey:

I'll be right next to you, helping you. No respect for people who cheat, or knowingly allow someone else to cheat.

Originally posted by Porter
Personally, I've kicked a married woman out of my hotel room when I found out she was married. I was like "get some respect for yourself, bitch!" She didn't like that very much, but I'm sure if her husband or children found out about it they'd be very thankful to me.

I'd also like to volunteer to beat the hell out of anybody who has had sex with someone who is married to someone else... or cheated on their own spouse for that matter.

You are the lowest form of human life and don't deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us.

:monkey:

My friend married his highschool sweetheart and is now devorsed from her because she :monkey: a different guy each week.

Steve

But yes I have, but I was dating her and she was getting a divorse.

:D

~B

Yes, because she told me she was divorced.

And she was hot so it was worth it. But I'm older and smarter now and I would never do something like that now.

I haven't and I can't say that I care to either.

But I do believe in open relationships if both partners are willing to consider the implications and communicate at every step of the way.

I do know of a married couple that have this type of relationship and they are very happy with each other and their alternative lifestyle.

DIVORCE it's :monkey:'n DIVORCE!

it's not divorse, it's not devorse

goddam that was bugging me...i hate our school systems sometimes

> Was it worth it?
Why would I hit it if it wasn't worth it? Do you regularly do things that aren't worth it to you? You know... you do have a choice.


> Did their husband/wife find out?
A few of them did.


> Did you know they were married when you hooked up with them?
Uh, yeah... why wouldn't I? For what it's worth, I also knew/know their names. You are allowed to talk with them, you know... Or are you like into strangers and one-night-stands?

If all you need is to drain the 'nads, grab a magazine and serve yourself. Don't inflict your neurosis on others! :mad:

--scott

haha. too funny. Right now i have this girl who is married who is all over me. She calls me several times a day and we talk for like hours! And im like WTH do you want woman you are married!! Sigh.. to hit it or not to hit it hrmm. ;) :p

Sadly, yes, I did. Big mistake.

I'm with you 100% on this. :)

Originally posted by vibecity


But I do believe in open relationships if both partners are willing to consider the implications and communicate at every step of the way.

I do know of a married couple that have this type of relationship and they are very happy with each other and their alternative lifestyle.

While the Taliban above get all self-righteous about all the "low lifes" that cheat, I'm prepared to stand up and admit that I do it. Take your best shot! :eek:

Big words from 2000 miles away. Anybody in the SCIC want to volunteer to stomp this lowlife?


Open relationships (polyamory) are something completely different. It's a totally different case if both partners are aware of what's going on and are consenting.

Having sex with a married woman is worthless. Think about her husband who doesn't know anything about it... or her children who will have to grow up without two parents in the house after the husband kills the bitch... and probably you too. I hope you enjoy having a .40 slug in you.

Originally posted by Porter
I hope you enjoy having a .40 slug in you.


He may not but apparently the cheating woman does:devil:

boxman

Ever heard of MORALs?????????? To those who do cheat, have you ever thought of the ramifications of your actions on the two people that vowed their life to each other??? Just because they might be looking for it, it does not absolve you of the responsibility in taking part in adultry.

Flame all U want, but if you touch my woman.............. Hell hath no Fury like that of a Scorned Triton!!!!!!!

OK, why get married if you know you are going to cheat or that you are willing to? And, if you are married and then start cheating, why remain married?

Because it is convenient? :rolleyes: How nice of you. How would you feel if your partner were cheating on you? Now, if both you and your partner have a don't ask, don't tell agreement, then no big deal I suppose. But, see, marriage is about comittment to your partner; this includes being faithful and not lying to them . When you cheat you do both of course.

Originally posted by -LD
DIVORCE it's :monkey:'n DIVORCE!

it's not divorse, it's not devorse

goddam that was bugging me...i hate our school systems sometimes


"man, ld, that's some pent up rage you have there"

By the way, I've noticed you never begin your sentences with proper capitalization, nor do you end them with correct (actually any) punctuation.

And a dam holds back water. I think you meant "damn."

There are a lot of lonely married people out there who stay married for convenience/tax reasons/because they enjoy each others company socially but not sexually etc etc

Well, then those couples would fall under the 'don't ask, don't tell' category. That is something entirely different.

It's not cheating if your spouse already knows you're going to potentially do it.

Originally posted by HoRo1
There are a lot of lonely married people out there who stay married for convenience/tax reasons/because they enjoy each others company socially but not sexually etc etc

Originally posted by The_Triton
Ever heard of MORALs?????????? To those who do cheat, have you ever thought of the ramifications of your actions on the two people that vowed their life to each other??? Just because they might be looking for it, it does not absolve you of the responsibility in taking part in adultry.

Flame all U want, but if you touch my woman.............. Hell hath no Fury like that of a Scorned Triton!!!!!!!


So your saying that I am the bad guy if say your wife comes over and gets jiggy with me?
Last I checked the one in the relationship is the cheeter.
Hell I have never been with a married girl but I have stolen plenty of them from their boyfriends.
Is it my fault that they want to ditch the BF and come to my bed?

What if the girl was engaged, does that count?

at 19 I lost my virginity to a 26 year-old woman, recently-divorced, living-with-her-new-boyfriend, and taking care of her 5 year old daughter...

she didn't tell me ANY of that stuff before I got with her...

it was like jumping into an episode of Jerry Springer!

it was a messed up situation that I wouldn't have gotten myself into had I known all that stuff - I've never been one to encourage cheating, but it was worth it - she was a Tai-Bo instructor...she was HOT!

:D

Originally posted by Tainted



So your saying that I am the bad guy if say your wife comes over and gets jiggy with me?
Last I checked the one in the relationship is the cheeter.
Hell I have never been with a married girl but I have stolen plenty of them from their boyfriends.
Is it my fault that they want to ditch the BF and come to my bed?

Yes. You made the choice to sleep with someone who is commited to another. Don't get me wrong, the wife is at fault as well. Even more so, due to the commitment and vows that she took. Girlfriend/boyfriends are different in the fact that they have not taken a solem vow to commit themselves with ONE other person. So it is just sexual competition on that case.

If you are with some guys who rob a store, will you be found guilty of robbery and go to jail even if you didn't hold the gun...... Yes, you were an accomplice to the crime. - Just an example

Originally posted by The_Triton


Yes. You made the choice to sleep with someone who is commited to another. Don't get me wrong, the wife is at fault as well. Even more so, due to the commitment and vows that she took. Girlfriend/boyfriends are different in the fact that they have not taken a solem vow to commit themselves with ONE other person. So it is just sexual competition on that case.

If you are with some guys who rob a store, will you be found guilty of robbery and go to jail even if you didn't hold the gun...... Yes, you were an accomplice to the crime. - Just an example

Alright we'll call it a draw.
:lol:
I agree with your point, In the other post I took it the wrong way I thought you wernt laying any blame on the chica.






Here's a noodle cooker for all you married guys and gals.

If your spouse cheated on you would you get a divorce or just lock them in the basement?:confused:

How could she possibly cheat on me when she already is locked in the basement?? :confused:

"Excuse me. Are you married?"
[shows ring]"What do you think?"
"To her?"
"Not that it's any of your freakin' business, but NO"
[BLAM!]

Adultery is bad, mmmmkay.

I ALWAYS have 'relations' with someone married. Coincidentally, she's my wife...

Originally posted by ryaneatworld
"Excuse me. Are you married?"
[shows ring]"What do you think?"
"To her?"
"Not that it's any of your freakin' business, but NO"
[BLAM!]




Dogma is an underrated movie.

I cheated on my girlfriend once kinda. This one girl gave me head. But i didnt like the girl and only did it because she asked me if she could. I dunno why i let her, she may have had a std or something. But all i know is that i would never cheat on someone again. I felt soo horrible, because after i did it, it seemed like my girlfriend treated me better

I think I'm with Tainted on this one, I would not consider myself a cheater, for I am not "cheating" on my end of the relationship, because it IS my relationship to be with her. True, she would be cheating on her marriage though. But if she's out looking, then something is awry at home, and that is a problem between her and her man that they need to work out. At most, it should be a concern of mine as in "why are you doing this?" Her answer would help to determine whether or not to continue the "relation". Open and "don't ask, don't tell" marriages would be OK IMHO.

In response to the question, nope, never had.

Originally posted by I am b
I hook up with a married chick 3-4 times a week. :D

Damnit, I thought I was going to be the only smarta$$ to say that. :D

Been there, done that. However, cheating is indicative of a relationship that is not working properly.

Open relationships are weird ... in some cases it can just be a lifestyle, but in other cases it's both people who are not strong enough to break up and find the one they really love.

If you really love someone you won't want to cheat on them.

'Nuff said.

*sigh*

If I meet a woman and she wants a casual sexual relationship, that's an issue between her and her spouse to resolve.

Come to think of it, I haven't had a relationship with an actively married woman (I had a Russian gf whose hubby was in Moscow and hadn't seen her for two years), but I've jumped at a girl who was in a committed nonmarried relationship.

And RE: swinging, have you seen most of the women involved in swinging relationships? ROUGH (or is that RUFF?)! :eek:

I was in my 20's and single...

she was married but apparently her husband was fooling around on here also...

Hooked up with her twice.. once I found out her husband was a cop kind of put a damper in the erection dept.

I just don't get how a person could cheat on their significant other, then go look them in the eyes.

I know I couldn't do it. Cheating shows such a lack of respect for your SO. Helping someone cheat on their SO just shows that you have no respect for other people, period.

It's real sad to see how many men/women cheat on their SO's nowadays. From so many stories I hear, it makes it tough for me to ever open up to a girl anymore, in fear that sooner or later she'll just end up cheating on me.

OK, how's this for a story:

This totally hot older girl I was working with at the time decided that her boyfriend that she lived with for five years wasn't giving her enough attention, ( He'd come home drunk at 4am, etc.) so I became her booty call. I was 23, her, 30. (She had really big breasts too...that always makes it a good story.)

Anyways, the summer was speeding along, and we'd bang alot after work, on our lunch break...and she'd come over and we'd spend the night together while her jackass boyfriend was getting loaded with his buddies. So it was sex with me, but she couldn't leave her boyfriend for some reason...

One night, I totally cooked a gourmet Italian dinner for us. I had the candles lit, the wine was just being poured as she came to the door. And as I was handing her the wine glass, she told me with tears in her eyes, "My boyfriend proposed to me lastnight."

I was stunned. "What did you say?", I asked. She said yes. :( Man...I felt so crushed. Apparently her boyfriend figured it out that he was being cheated on, and popped the question to keep her from leaving him.

So, the night after she said yes to marriage...we had mad crazy sex one last time. Six months later she was married.


Badda Bing!



Skylab™


*Moral of the story. Girls are so easily manipulated by ******** with money* :monkey:

Originally posted by Kaiser



"man, ld, that's some pent up rage you have there"

By the way, I've noticed you never begin your sentences with proper capitalization, nor do you end them with correct (actually any) punctuation.

And a dam holds back water. I think you meant "damn." is that the best you've got?

yeah, it is pent up rage...i can't stand the utter idiocy and ignorance some people display in their writing...people who can't even come close to spelling anything correctly, people who don't know your from you're, the list goes on...typos happen, brain farts happen, but the people who are completely ignorant are always obvious

my style is just that, a style...i use periods (...) a lot, i almost never capitalize, and i rarely use punctuation on a message board or in emails, just for questions or exclamations...but it's not for lack of knowledge, it's just a style...think of me as similar to e. e. cummings of internet message boards

and i did mean goddam, it is a word (http://www.dictionary.com/search?q=goddam) ...nice try though

Originally posted by SubEd
How could she possibly cheat on me when she already is locked in the basement?? :confused:

ahahahahahahhahhaha

I haven't, but one of my friends has. Once my friend told me, I lost a lot of respect for her. I haven't spoken to her since, and I don't really feel like I should. Just the fact that her "Moral standing is lying down" (to quote Trent Reznor) really bothers me. I kind of feel like a d*ck or a-hole for feeling this way, but what can I do? I try to be down to earth and easygoing, but I feel like maybe I'm developing a holier-than-thou attitude.