"A real family"
That's what I'm talking about. You start a club, and I'll be there every time I can to support you. You need help moving and I'll be right there for you because you're a friend.
Ask me to sign a set of rules saying I will attend x-meetings and I should have a sticker on my car (regardless of whether I would or not) and you can have a club without me.
You can take my money, but you cannot take maaa Freeeeeeedom!!!!!