I agree with everyone who says to call SOA. You are part of SONE but SOA should be able to at least point you in the right direction if they can't help. I've been told the SONE does not use VON's either. I don't see any limited WRX's in New England that are currently for sale, so they may just be waiting on locating one. Hopefully they at least put in your order to get you in line. That way if a car that matches your order shows up in New England, I believe they would get it put in their allocation unless someone else with that same order has been waiting longer. Regardless, give them a call. It can't hurt. The dealer may get a call, but who cares at this point, maybe then they will give you some answers.
Where in CT did you order if you don't mind me asking? I went looking at a dealer a couple years ago in CT and they just rubbed me the wrong way.