Ok here is the updated path as it sits now..
1.) Cobb AP, STi TMIC & splitter, OTS Tune (honey, it will give me better fuel economy)
2.) 04 STi BBS wheels with 225/45/17, roll rear fenders, whiteline adjustable sway bars, kartboy endlinks, rear strut bar (wagon) (honey I need a summer and winter set)
3.) Cobb catted DP, OTS tune (honey, more fuel economy)
4.) VF 39/43/48, GS EBCS, Protune (don't know how I'll sell this one to her yet)
If I get hungry for more later, injectors, FP, Protune.
I'm not into buying something "just" for looks or sound so the cat-back is out, $700 will go a long way on my fun car or motorcycle, so it's better spent there. Heck I could even sock it away and put it towards the 6-speed swap I will inevitably perform when the 5-speed gives up the ghost.
Or I could do something responsible with it and buy a log splitter or other house stuff; nah I'll buy fun stuff.