You need a window roll up module in order to control the windows. A DEI 529T will do just up on 2 windows and a 530T will do up & down for 2 windows. If you want all 4, you will need 2 modules.
As for the lock / unlock, did you ground the violet input wire? It sounds like you have one of the units with a built in door lock relays, so you need to ground the input since it is a negative door lock system.