Personally, I wouldn't even use the free oil changes. Maybe I just had unlucky experiences, but I had an issue with service every single time I took my car to the dealer, which was maybe 4 times in 3 years.
Did you request no wash or prep work on the paint? I'd be pretty pissed if they swirled up my brand new paint.
I like the plate lights. It's always a nice touch over the stock ones.