alright, here's the female connector that I've called the socket
It came with wires already attatched, but I removed them and attatched my heavier gauge wire to the connectors inside. I don't remember exactly what this socket was called on the package, but I know it said nothing about H4. Just look around for something that looks like it would fit...
Here's what I did for the male end...
you can see how I plugged my harness into the factory system. The relays for the hi and low beams are attatched to the battery hold down, with a bracket I made.
Any questions, feel free to ask
ps. let me know if the pics are too big, if so, I'll resize them
Steve
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