The girl I'm dating did soemthing on Saturday that amazed the hell out of me.

Wozzer · 06-29-2004, 11:16 AM

Ok guys I've been trolling this board long enough without posting so here goes my first attempt to entertain you guys.

I went out with this girl I've been dating for the past three months on saturday. I was late getting to the bar and when I got there some guy was hitting on her. She's a cute girl so I thought nothing of it. Then twenty minutes later she gives the guy her number right in front of me.

Now bear in mind that we aren't exclusive, but for me the very fact that she would do that in front of me is completely disrespectful and inconsiderate. I freaked out, becauser I simply didn't know how to handle the situation. I bitched her as to why she did that and she told me that she just wants to be friends with the guy and I need to be more mature about things.

I'm sure this guy just wants to be friends. My @ss!!

Anyways I proceeded to act like a complete dick the rest of the night. For the past two days I've been trying to get a hold of her to tell her it's over. She beat me to the punch by sending me an e-mail saying she doesn't want to date anyone right now.

Now am I wrong to not want to be with a girl who acts like that? To me it's just down right disrepectful.

Cliffnotes:
Girl I'm dating gives a strange guy her number right in front of me. Tells me to chill out and she just wants to be friends with him. I freaked out and things are now over. Am I wrong to not want to be with a girl who is goign to act liek that? Yeah we aren't exclusive, but show me a little respect and courtesy.

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Subi Chicky · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

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Originally posted by Wozzer
Am I wrong to not want to be with a girl who is goign to act liek that? Yeah we aren't exclusive, but show me a little respect and courtesy.

What she did isn't neccesarily wrong, but it was wrong to you. In other words, she's not your type of girl, so move on to one who fits your standards better.

sorbee711 · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

She was looking for your replacement. That guy is banging her right now. She probably was banging 6-10 guys during those 3 months you dated. You = teh l0se.

alacrity024 · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

that's a low frickin' blow man.. shame she beat you to the punch..

Strider · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

So you waited all this time, and your first post is girl trouble? Damn.

The_Triton · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

she wants sex........

not a significant other.

Find her
Feel her
F*** her
Forget her.

nunyo · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

You're a tool

calibug · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

You're not exclusive, so it's ok to give her digits out to other people. However, it's just in poor taste to do it in front of you. You're better off without her.

HOV · 06-29-2004, 11:18 AM

Totally inappropriate. Good for you on breaking it off with her.

Subi Chicky · 06-29-2004, 11:19 AM

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Originally posted by calibug
You're not exclusive, so it's ok to give her digits out to other people. However, it's just in poor taste to do it in front of you.

Bingo!

AC Lerok · 06-29-2004, 11:19 AM

well, if it's not exclusive with her, you had no right to pitch a bitch about it. maybe she wanted something exclusive and was tired of waiting around for you? i dunno.

welcome to the OT, bish.

LotusDriftx · 06-29-2004, 11:19 AM

ditch the bitch

she clearly had no respect for you at all.

Gods_SoN · 06-29-2004, 11:19 AM

your title does not express WAPCE ... edit

LotusDriftx · 06-29-2004, 11:20 AM

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Originally posted by Gods_SoN
your title does not express WAPCE ... edit

ya, amazed implies something GOOD.

VanillaEps · 06-29-2004, 11:20 AM

She emails you? That's weak. Tell her that being mature means giving you a call.

CandyO · 06-29-2004, 11:21 AM

I'd say that's a legit case of WAPCE. If you aren't exclusive, that's all well and good for her to accept other numbers, but it is tacky and in very poor taste to do it while on a date with you. Consider yourself lucky that you got out right away on a tecnicality you can live with, instead of finding out down the road that she cheated on you.

dropmech · 06-29-2004, 11:21 AM

IDP

LotusDriftx · 06-29-2004, 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by VanillaEps
She emails you? That's weak. Tell her to grow some balls and give you a call.

She has all the balls in the world. I think she just didn't care enough about him to be bothered with a phone call.

Wozzer · 06-29-2004, 11:22 AM

Well even if she only wanted to be frineds with the guy, which I don't believe, I just think it was incredibly rude to do that in fornt of me.

Also I forgot to mention that she was mad at me for bitching at her so she let this guy hit on her all night to get back at me. I care about her and she was drunk as hell so I stood around like an idiot until I finally got her to go home with me.

Bitxh is downright crazy!!

Dennis ex24 · 06-29-2004, 11:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by alacrity024
that's a low frickin' blow man.. shame she beat you to the punch..

but yet...

Quote:

Originally posted by AC Lerok
well, if it's not exclusive with her, you had no right to pitch a bitch about it. maybe she wanted something exclusive and was tired of waiting around for you? i dunno.

welcome to the OT, bish.

and some how...

WAPCE.

AC Lerok · 06-29-2004, 11:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Wozzer
Also I forgot to mention that she was mad at me for bitching at her so she let this guy hit on her all night to get back at me. I care about her and she was drunk as hell so I stood around like an idiot until I finally got her to go home with me.

dummy.

Wozzer · 06-29-2004, 11:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by VanillaEps
She emails you? That's weak. Tell her that being mature means giving you a call.

I finally got her on the phone and told her that very thing. That's why i didn't just leave a voicemail or send an e-mail to her. Still really pisses me that she beat me to the punch though.

docwhorocks · 06-29-2004, 11:24 AM

There's only one solution to this. You must stick it in her mom & send her pics.

CandyO · 06-29-2004, 11:25 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Wozzer
I finally got her on the phone and told her that very thing. That's why i didn't just leave a voicemail or send an e-mail to her. Still really pisses me that she beat me to the punch though.

Let it go, she's worthless.

Wozzer · 06-29-2004, 11:26 AM

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Originally posted by AC Lerok
dummy.

It was the first time anything like that has ever happened to me. It freaked me out. Should have got up and left as soon as I saw her do that.

Live and learn.

06-29-2004, 11:16 AM	#1
Wozzer Scooby Newbie Member#: 65181 Join Date: Jun 2004	The girl I'm dating did soemthing on Saturday that amazed the hell out of me. Ok guys I've been trolling this board long enough without posting so here goes my first attempt to entertain you guys. I went out with this girl I've been dating for the past three months on saturday. I was late getting to the bar and when I got there some guy was hitting on her. She's a cute girl so I thought nothing of it. Then twenty minutes later she gives the guy her number right in front of me. Now bear in mind that we aren't exclusive, but for me the very fact that she would do that in front of me is completely disrespectful and inconsiderate. I freaked out, becauser I simply didn't know how to handle the situation. I bitched her as to why she did that and she told me that she just wants to be friends with the guy and I need to be more mature about things. I'm sure this guy just wants to be friends. My @ss!! Anyways I proceeded to act like a complete dick the rest of the night. For the past two days I've been trying to get a hold of her to tell her it's over. She beat me to the punch by sending me an e-mail saying she doesn't want to date anyone right now. Now am I wrong to not want to be with a girl who acts like that? To me it's just down right disrepectful. Cliffnotes: Girl I'm dating gives a strange guy her number right in front of me. Tells me to chill out and she just wants to be friends with him. I freaked out and things are now over. Am I wrong to not want to be with a girl who is goign to act liek that? Yeah we aren't exclusive, but show me a little respect and courtesy. * Registered users of the site do not see these ads.

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06-29-2004, 11:18 AM	#3
sorbee711 Scooby Specialist Member#: 14259 Join Date: Jan 2002 Chapter/Region: NESIC Location: Shrewsbury, MA Vehicle: OT, we're a-holes b/c we are bored at work	She was looking for your replacement. That guy is banging her right now. She probably was banging 6-10 guys during those 3 months you dated. You = teh l0se.

06-29-2004, 11:18 AM	#4
alacrity024 Review Crew Member#: 49476 Join Date: Nov 2003 Chapter/Region: Tri-State Location: Out of the car, long-hair!!	that's a low frickin' blow man.. shame she beat you to the punch..

06-29-2004, 11:18 AM	#5
Strider Visiting NASIOC Timeout Member#: 2197 Join Date: Aug 2000 Chapter/Region: Tri-State Location: An adventure is just Vehicle: an inconvenience, properly considered.	So you waited all this time, and your first post is girl trouble? Damn.

06-29-2004, 11:18 AM	#6
The_Triton Scooby Specialist Member#: 18647 Join Date: May 2002 Location: -=AWOL OT MEMBER=-	she wants sex........ not a significant other. Find her Feel her F*** her Forget her.

06-29-2004, 11:18 AM	#7
nunyo Scooby Specialist Member#: 35575 Join Date: Apr 2003 Chapter/Region: South East Location: Tampa Vehicle: '07 Subaru OBS Silver/Gray	You're a tool

06-29-2004, 11:18 AM	#8
calibug Scooby Newbie Member#: 55006 Join Date: Feb 2004 Chapter/Region: South East Location: Charlotte, NC	You're not exclusive, so it's ok to give her digits out to other people. However, it's just in poor taste to do it in front of you. You're better off without her.

06-29-2004, 11:18 AM	#9
HOV Scooby Specialist Member#: 64632 Join Date: Jun 2004 Chapter/Region: MAIC Location: VA	Totally inappropriate. Good for you on breaking it off with her.

06-29-2004, 11:19 AM	#11
AC Lerok Scooby Newbie Member#: 7918 Join Date: Jun 2001 Chapter/Region: Tri-State Location: Haterz no like. Vehicle: 2007 FSXT Obsidian Black Pearl	well, if it's not exclusive with her, you had no right to pitch a bitch about it. maybe she wanted something exclusive and was tired of waiting around for you? i dunno. welcome to the OT, bish.

06-29-2004, 11:19 AM	#12
LotusDriftx Scooby Guru Member#: 48528 Join Date: Nov 2003 Chapter/Region: MAIC Location: That guy w/the hot LARP costum	ditch the bitch she clearly had no respect for you at all.

06-29-2004, 11:19 AM	#13
Gods_SoN Scooby Specialist Member#: 38964 Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NOVA to BLACKSBURG Vehicle: 2002 WRX ACC Champs - Hokie Pride	your title does not express WAPCE ... edit

06-29-2004, 11:20 AM	#15
VanillaEps Scooby Specialist Member#: 8271 Join Date: Jul 2001 Chapter/Region: Tri-State Location: Hoboken, NJ Vehicle: 2019 STi Limited ISM	She emails you? That's weak. Tell her that being mature means giving you a call.

06-29-2004, 11:21 AM	#16
CandyO Scooby Newbie Member#: 36091 Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: SC Vehicle: 2006 Golf TDI FTW!!!	I'd say that's a legit case of WAPCE. If you aren't exclusive, that's all well and good for her to accept other numbers, but it is tacky and in very poor taste to do it while on a date with you. Consider yourself lucky that you got out right away on a tecnicality you can live with, instead of finding out down the road that she cheated on you.

06-29-2004, 11:21 AM	#17
dropmech Scooby Specialist Member#: 41477 Join Date: Aug 2003 Chapter/Region: South East Location: Jacksonville Vehicle: 2006 Tahoe that will pull your bumper off	IDP

06-29-2004, 11:22 AM	#19
Wozzer Scooby Newbie Member#: 65181 Join Date: Jun 2004	Well even if she only wanted to be frineds with the guy, which I don't believe, I just think it was incredibly rude to do that in fornt of me. Also I forgot to mention that she was mad at me for bitching at her so she let this guy hit on her all night to get back at me. I care about her and she was drunk as hell so I stood around like an idiot until I finally got her to go home with me. Bitxh is downright crazy!!

06-29-2004, 11:24 AM	#23
docwhorocks Scooby Newbie Member#: 13772 Join Date: Dec 2001 Chapter/Region: RMIC Location: -=OT SQUIRREL HERDER=- Vehicle: 16 Frontier Red	There's only one solution to this. You must stick it in her mom & send her pics.