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01-18-2005, 03:35 AM | #26 | |
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01-18-2005, 03:37 AM | #27 |
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She is probably one of those "controlling - ALways Jealous" gf's....but albeit that, you still want to be with her, and obviously you like her enough to spend some time thinking about what will make her trust you again. Welli recommend talking to her alot and really communicating. Most girls just bring up the whole trust issue because she feels that she doesn't know what your doing and what your thinking. To guys, it freaks them out...but a girlfreind just wants to know whats going on. So i recommend telling her everything your going to do for the next few weeks...and really TALK to her. MAybe it'll help.
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01-18-2005, 06:51 AM | #28 |
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So here you are telling us that you went out and spent some time with other people, which is a completely normal thing, and then she had a fit, and now she does not trust you. And you are thinking that you are going to do something niiiiiiiiiiice for her and that will solve everything? And you think this will never happen again, and that she is going to get over this?
So here is what I see: 1. Guy goes out with friends, and some other girls. Does not have a great time. 2. Tells GF 3. GF goes crazy because she is not 100% sure you are in love with her and is not 100% in control of you. 4. Guy thinks that if he sucks it up and is "nice" she'll suddenly trust him and respect him. 5. Guy thinks this is normal and won't ever happen again. Are you nuts? If you do something - anything - at this point, she'll think you are covering up. You need to lay some ground rules, here, and going out with your friends is allowed. If she's got a problem with that, then something is wrong with her. Guys, how many of your girlfriends would do that to you? I know my GF wouldn't. She trusts me implicitly - and if she did not I would dump her. It's not worth the headache. Right? |
01-18-2005, 08:55 AM | #29 |
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Ok, now tell us what really happened, not the BS story you told her. I say you knew the others were there and are trying to play it off now.
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01-18-2005, 08:57 AM | #30 | |
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01-18-2005, 08:58 AM | #31 |
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01-18-2005, 09:07 AM | #32 |
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Just sit her down, tell her exactly what happened. Tell her that next time, you'll give her a call to let her know if something like this happens again. She got pissed because she cares about you, you're here asking what to do, because you care about her. If she was out with some friends and they picked up some guys, wouldn't you want her to tell you about it and give you the opportunity to meet up with them? Do her the same courtesy next time and she won't be suspicious and there won't be any trust issues.
Simple rule of thumb: Before you do something, think about what you'd want her to do in the same situation, and do the same thing. No more problems. |
01-18-2005, 09:09 AM | #33 | |
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01-18-2005, 09:10 AM | #34 |
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someone's hiding something. There is no reason to kiss her arse if you are as innocent as you say - what really happened?
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01-18-2005, 09:24 AM | #35 |
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I agree with RS25.com Move on. Just beacause she is insecure, doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Prepare for more drama if you stay with her.
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01-18-2005, 09:26 AM | #36 | |
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01-18-2005, 09:27 AM | #37 |
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01-18-2005, 09:37 AM | #38 |
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I'm assuming you're leaving out some important details. Did you tell her exactly what your plans were? Did you tell her exactly what happened that night? Did you tell us everything? If so, she will believe what she wants to and will probably never trust you again. DTB.
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01-18-2005, 09:46 AM | #39 | |
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01-18-2005, 10:12 AM | #40 | |
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01-18-2005, 10:23 AM | #41 |
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From experience, there is nothing you can do to regain her trust. She may act like she does, but she'll just be secretly resenting you. It's doomed, RUN!
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01-18-2005, 10:24 AM | #42 | |
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01-18-2005, 10:32 AM | #43 |
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01-18-2005, 10:37 AM | #45 | |
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01-18-2005, 10:53 AM | #46 |
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I'm going to have to agree with the "mushroom stamp" suggestions too.
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01-18-2005, 10:56 AM | #47 |
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