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Old 11-23-2006, 12:43 PM   #1
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Default ex-g/f (possibly) dating a friend, would you have a problem with it?

I dated a girl for 3 years. During the last year, we lived together and she would always go out with me and my friends. Well that year was a bumpy one and we went off our separate ways when the lease ended. About 6 months later I started dating another girl who is really sweet and things have been going great with her for over a year now. I still talk to my ex every so often, but now she's hanging out with all my (ex)friends who coincedentally don't talk to me anymore and is possibly dating one of them.

I know we're not together anymore but three years is a long time to spend with someone and there are still some feelings leftover. I know I should just forget about all of them and move forward with what I have, but I wish she would have just left my life completely to make it easier. All those friends are still on my local car forum so it's not like I can get rid of them either. I don't know, maybe time is all it will take. I guess it doesn't help that I'm in Iraq where my only real form of communication with everybody is the internet.
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Old 11-23-2006, 12:45 PM   #2
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get over it and stop being emo.
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Old 11-23-2006, 12:46 PM   #3
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If they aren't really friends of yours (it seems like you don't talk to them much), I wouldn't have much of a problem with it. If it was one of your very good friends, that's an "Oh Hell no" moment unless they talk to you about it. At least IMO. Bro's before ho's right?
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Old 11-23-2006, 12:46 PM   #4
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dude, im sorry, but i gotta ask, are you a WoW player??

back to topic: been there done that, got the t-shirt and helped with teh divorce. sucks bro. there aint no way to know. if shes ur ex, who cares. care about teh fact that your "friend" is doing this and not asking you first. ya know?

WAPCE FTL
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Old 11-23-2006, 12:47 PM   #5
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All's fair in love and war.



The thing is...even if you have a problem with it it's still gonna happen. The best thing to do is mentally get past it somehow so it no longer bothers you. This process may require help from her sister or best friend.


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Old 11-23-2006, 12:48 PM   #6
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Old 11-23-2006, 12:53 PM   #7
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get over it and stop being emo.
Yeah I know, but they were a group of friends I had a lot of fun with and well.. she had big tits. It doesn't help that I'm kinda lonely here. I work alone at my job and my roommate works an off-shift so I'm pretty much left with myself and the internet for most of my free time here. lot of time to just sit and let thoughts bug me to death.
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Old 11-23-2006, 12:58 PM   #8
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TTIWWOP said big tits
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:04 PM   #9
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Been there done that. Cept mine was only a year and a half long.

Find another girl to bang, thats the easiest solution.

women are PCE, accept the diffrence, let your buddy get it on and call it a day.
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:04 PM   #10
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my ex of 7 years was dating a very good friend of mine less than a year (iirc) after we broke up. It really wasn't a big deal. I still hung out with the guy plenty (he worked with me for a while in fact), and I'd see the girl from time to time for whatever reason (just "hanging out" friend-type stuff, sicko)

it's none of your business how she lives her life anymore, and if you care for her at all you'd be happy to see her happy. and if you don't care for her anymore, what does it matter?

to recap: get over it and stop being emo
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:08 PM   #11
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get over it...
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:13 PM   #12
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+1.

Get over it. She has nothing to do with you anymore. You should actually feel a little bit like an idiot for thinking she should conform to your left-over feelings.
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:19 PM   #13
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Yeah, guess I should just grow up and get over her.. well guys thanks for the reality check.
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:21 PM   #14
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anytime. that's what we're here for.
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:35 PM   #15
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Old 11-23-2006, 01:39 PM   #16
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=xsUtEIsU72U

it's been longer than six months.

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Old 11-23-2006, 01:56 PM   #17
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Bummer but all you have to do is get a better looking girl then her!!! Then who cares if your friend has your "sloppy seconds"!!!!!!!!
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Old 11-23-2006, 02:56 PM   #18
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this man is wise... listen to him. I think you'd be more comfortable with the situation if your friends came out and let you know what was going on. Now you think someone's trying to pull something behind your back yes, no? But all in all it doesn't matter mang...
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Old 11-23-2006, 02:57 PM   #19
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It all depends on how things ended between you two in my opinion. There are girls that I would feel a little weird about if they were dating one of my friends, but would get over pretty quickly and then there are girls that I've dated who I would flip my lid if one of my friends was dating them. It all comes down to how things ended between us and if there are unresolved feelings on my end.

Do yourself a favor and remember why you broke up in the first place, the girl isn't the one for you. If it bothers you that much just don't expose yourself to anything in terms of her. Cut off contact.
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Old 11-23-2006, 02:57 PM   #20
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i have no problem that your friend is dating your ex
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Old 11-23-2006, 02:59 PM   #21
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i have a problem that those boobs aint on my thighs... Teh BJ FTW
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About 6 months later I started dating another girl who is really sweet and things have been going great with her for over a year now. I still talk to my ex every so often, but now she's hanging out with all my (ex)friends who coincedentally don't talk to me anymore and is possibly dating one of them.
So its OK if that you've moved on but not if she has?
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Old 11-23-2006, 09:03 PM   #23
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So its OK if that you've moved on but not if she has?
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Old 11-23-2006, 09:10 PM   #24
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Bummer but all you have to do is get a better looking girl then her!!! Then who cares if your friend has your "sloppy seconds"!!!!!!!!

FTMFW

and wtf dude your girl right now has a sweet rack, focus on that
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