These are the posts that helped me
http://forums.nasioc.com/forums/show...&postcount=152
http://forums.nasioc.com/forums/show...&postcount=157
I tried to get the pics the best I could but because of the small wires it was very hard with my camera.
First thing I started off with is a Garmin External Microphone part # 010-10804-00

The reason I got it is because it some with all the attachments for the car just like the OEM one.

First thing I did is I cut off the plug and stripped back the wire. The negative was wraped around the positive wire.

Next I pulled back the wires to have my negative and positive.

To make two negative wires I took a phone line and made two wires out of it. The gauge of wire matched what the positve wire was all ready in the Microphone.

I twisted the 3 wires together. Then I soldered them together.

After that I used some heat shrink tubing to make sure it all stays together that there is less of a change of a short.

Next I added the plugs to the end.

To protect the plugs and make sure the wire stay together again I used some heat shrink tubing.

This is how it looks pluged into the back of the head unit.
